I hear what you're saying, but I ask for the following consideration. If we trust the message that Paul allegedly spoke, which is that God put Israel into a "deep sleep" so that they could not respond, it would be conflicting if God, at the exact same time, expected Israel to respect Jesus.
Romans 11:7-8 NLT - "So this is the situation: Most of the people of Israel have not found the favor of God they are looking for so earnestly. A few have--the ones God has chosen--but the hearts of the rest were hardened. As the Scriptures say, "God has put them into a deep sleep. To this day he has shut their eyes so they do not see, and closed their ears so they do not hear."
Because Paul is specifically referring to modern-day Jews in the above Scripture, and because we know that the Jews in the Mark 12 passage set were from the same general era, we can then know that the Jews of that day were still Spiritually deaf, blind, and unable to walk. We know that the Jews mentioned in the Mark 12 passages are of the modern-day era by going to the end of the story where we find and review the following passage:
Mark 12:12 NLT - "The religious leaders wanted to arrest Jesus because they realized he was telling the story against them--they were the wicked farmers. But they were afraid of the crowd, so they left him and went away."
It seems apparent that the majority of Israel was in a "deep sleep," and if this is True, and there doesn't seem reason to deny it, as being in the "deep sleep" would desperately conflict with the idea that God expected the Jews and Gentiles to respect Jesus.
I hope I've given you something positive to think about.
David
I have considered what you're saying years ago and for they very point you made, which is, both can't be true. So the only conclusion is that somewhere, the scriptures aren't being understood properly.
In Rom.11:7, "the elect" Paul is referring to are those who live by faith, because from the beginning until the end, God decided people of faith would be the kind of people he wanted to share eternity with,
the scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the heathen through faith, preached before the gospel unto Abraham,
saying, In thee shall all nations be blessed. So then they which be of faith are blessed with faithful Abraham. Gal.3:8-9
God chose the poor of this world rich in faith Jas.2:5
God chose what the world thinks foolish...God chose what is low and despised in the world, what is regarded as nothing 1Cor.1:27-28
These scriptures show us that it's the type of person our Lord chooses, not the individual. Otherwise, every "poor" person is saved, along with every "foolish, low, despised person regarded as nothing."
In Rom.11:8, Paul is quoting the OT, where loss of eyesight may occur over time because of insincerity of heart,
For the LORD hath poured out upon you the spirit of deep sleep, and hath closed your eyes: the prophets and your rulers, the seers hath he covered.....And the Lord said: "Because this people draw near with their mouth and honor me with their lips, while their hearts are far from me, and their fear of me is a commandment of men learned by rote Isa.29:10,13
Rom.11:9 goes on to quote David (Psa.69:22), where he's speaking of those who despise Christ. Nowhere in the NT is the idea that people are compelled to stay in rebellion against God,
whenever they may turn unto the Lord, the vail is taken away. 2Cor.3:16
It's true that people who don't have time for our Savior walk in darkness, but they don't have to stay there,
as I am indeed an apostle of nations, my ministration I do glorify; if by any means I shall arouse to jealousy mine own flesh, and shall save some of them Rom.11:12-14
"By any means", means there are means, or ways of explaining the gospel that may benefit those listening.