I agree.
I also agree that these discussion's are rough, but at some point Christians must be able to eat "meat" and not just milk only.
I am someone who has been rescued by The Lord Jesus Christ from a back-sliden lifestyle, more than once, not really knowing what the bible said about these things.
Once I began to study the words and meanings, of the language used by Jesus and the Apostles, I realized I had no excuse for the carnal, on again, off again lifestyle as well as the careless immature approach to God's word.
As a new Christian, and later young Christian, I knew about how much God loved me and His grace covered me, just like any baby and toddler would experience.
Later as a "teenager Christian", knowing just enough to be dangerous, I found myself on the receiving end of some bitter correction from the Lord.
Like the story of the Shepherd who must deal harshly with the ever wandering sheep, and ends up breaking the sheep's leg, and then carrying the sheep until his leg heals, is a good description of the Lord "breaking me" from wandering.
He loves us more than we could ever know. His mercy is never ending, and His grace is truly amazing.
However, He is just and righteous, and holy as well.
His word is true, and can not be redefined, or deceitfully tampered with, as if that would somehow make His word change to suit our own belief's, or doctrine, or traditions.
3 But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; 4 neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. 5 For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.7 Therefore do not be partakers with them.
8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), 10 finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. 13 But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light. Ephesians 5:3-13
Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them.
Paul warns us not to be a partaker of God's wrath, with them.
JLB