Christ_empowered
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I read somewhere that the growing narcissism in both the US and other modern countries is at the root of our new fondness for animals. I didn't get this until I thought about it.
Human relationships are ambiguous and require work. Animals need food, entertainment, and vet care. Human relationships build over time and involve reciprocity and the development of intimacy. With people moving all the time and then spending all their time on Facebook or plugged into an iPod, people aren't big into "real" friendships anymore; casual acquaintances are about as close as many people (at least, many people I know) will get to friendship. Then, in their vulnerable moments, these people whine about how "true friendship" is so hard to find, and how "nobody cares." Enter the pet(s); they're affectionate, they're cute, they can't talk back, and when they die you can look over your photographs with fond memories (and get a new one).
Also, as much as we may talk about "loving" our pet and our pet being our "best friend," that really can't ever be the case. C.S. Lewis classified the love of pets lower than he classified the love of friends. If you'll notice, if a pet is suffering, we won't hesitate to go to the vet and hurry up their departure from this world. Would you do that to a human being, even one you didn't know well? Probably not (although some "advanced" countries are moving in that direction).
Human relationships are ambiguous and require work. Animals need food, entertainment, and vet care. Human relationships build over time and involve reciprocity and the development of intimacy. With people moving all the time and then spending all their time on Facebook or plugged into an iPod, people aren't big into "real" friendships anymore; casual acquaintances are about as close as many people (at least, many people I know) will get to friendship. Then, in their vulnerable moments, these people whine about how "true friendship" is so hard to find, and how "nobody cares." Enter the pet(s); they're affectionate, they're cute, they can't talk back, and when they die you can look over your photographs with fond memories (and get a new one).
Also, as much as we may talk about "loving" our pet and our pet being our "best friend," that really can't ever be the case. C.S. Lewis classified the love of pets lower than he classified the love of friends. If you'll notice, if a pet is suffering, we won't hesitate to go to the vet and hurry up their departure from this world. Would you do that to a human being, even one you didn't know well? Probably not (although some "advanced" countries are moving in that direction).