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[__ Prayer __] Please pray for me as im trying to enter into a new frontier in life

I'm not sure what is going on with my car, first when I used the remote start on my way out of work it was high revving.. around 1,500 rpms which then I was able to drive on the highway, before pulling over and turning it off then playing with the throttle, maybe stuck?

But now my remote starter won't turn on the car... there's an off switch under the dash to shut off the remote starter system so I just turned it off after puzzled why it's not starting with the remote. The only thing I can think of is the security system is preventing the remote starter from starting the vehicle.

May have to take it into Best Buy but since it's like 7 years old, I hope it's not the system itself. About to do a Google search to see if there is known problems and a solution surrounding this issue..

They have fuses but they look fine. Tried swapping them around to no avail.
 
Things just keep getting worse here. I've gotten very impatient with these lusty women that just can't just keep away. There was a time where I didn't have to deal with any of this and simply put, for the longest time and generally when I was in plant 4, I didn't have to deal with any women. But now its like they follow me around. I had to use the bathroom early on and this cleaning lady usually shows up around 525Am. Nope the one day I had to use the bathroom early as I was walking out to my car at 515am she walks in.

Unbelievable. Sorry I'm just frustrated. I think it might have to do with all this satanic stuff on TV, with the Grammys and the half time Superbowl. I don't watch either one but not only us individuals needs prayers but America does because we strayed from God
 
Well good news with the car, i ended up taking the battery terminals off (side posts) cleaned up all the connections, stuck everything back together and the remote starter works again! Thank God. Going to have to figure out what to do with the security thing though. It may just be that the connection was dirty and I'll try it out with the key when I can to see if the security light comes back on. It might have also been responsible for false bad wheel sensor codes as that was an issue which has been seemly resolved.

Gotta locate where the ground wire goes to in case that needs cleaning.
 
These women at work have some kind of issues. I'm not going to converse with them. Try to just ignore them as much as I'm able to but it's like they keep pushing themselves into my way. This is way too consistent to be random. I need to be able to protect myself from this lustful situation, its tiring and I believe I have already mentioned I do not mingle with women I work with. Unfortunately either they want attention which I'm not going to give them or they're looking for a fling. Its pretty frustrating.

Also it's like they don't even bother listening or observing my lack of interest so instead of them just moving on it's like they try to push more... again frustrating. And I can talk to some women there just fine. Mostly the HR office area or lady managers. No problems there. It's just certain women there are just being ridiculous.
 
MayGodHeal said:
These women at work have some kind of issues. I'm not going to converse with them. Try to just ignore them as much as I'm able to but it's like they keep pushing themselves into my way. This is way too consistent to be random. I need to be able to protect myself from this lustful situation, its tiring and I believe I have already mentioned I do not mingle with women I work with. Unfortunately either they want attention which I'm not going to give them or they're looking for a fling. Its pretty frustrating.

Also it's like they don't even bother listening or observing my lack of interest so instead of them just moving on it's like they try to push more... again frustrating. And I can talk to some women there just fine. Mostly the HR office area or lady managers. No problems there. It's just certain women there are just being ridiculous.

I, too, have about the same opinion as you. It doesn't have to be otherwise. Although opinions may differ after all. I recently did a paper on this, I found http://essaypapers.reviews/ for it. Anything can happen in life and we can't influence some things. We can only adapt to them. This is my personal point of view.
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Yeah tell me about it. I just don't understand their deal. Even working as Target never ran into this problem. Women there was nice and respectful of my space.
 
I am so sick of dealing with these people always in a hurry driving. Saw a really bad accident yesterday and this morning people are cutting other people off in a hurry. So sick and tired of these people...
 
MayGodHeal said:
Hi, I'm new here and while I have some struggles and other praises/blessings I could definitely use a lot of prayers here. I got a lot here for people to absorb so grab a coffee and I pray you find time out of the day to hear me out.

First off I currently love my job. The people there are generally kind and while conflicts still arise and the job itself is far from perfect, like some of the machines I operate don't work correctly, (they're old but can function well if correctly in place, properly maintained) and the parts I make then do not come out with perfect quality, or should I say ideal quality. The leaders there are not always trying to get the machines to work better. So it's a real struggle as the machines are finicky.

The biggest 2 problems with my job is, 1 the women there are extremely lustful and I've noticed they're trying to get my attention, a few in quality control where I tend to be forced to interact with always seems to find problems with my parts, part of that is the machines don't operate correctly. The second part is that in those few women, the machines don't even produce decent parts. Which i find interesting.. other women just be in my path as I'm going on break and despite me being single it's kind of difficult for me to concentrate on work and really I prefer to stick with that as ideally work isn't a dating center. You're expected to provide a service for the people you work for.

As for women at work appearing to lust me for no apparent reason it's unclear if I'm giving off some kind of energy or it's something I'm not doing right. I do like a few women I kinda know online but it's really vague and I don't really quite know what the deal is with this. It's just that I'm not going to engage with any of these women as it doesn't feel right to me as God has already shown me a different path.

Second issue is driving there and back. While yes it's roughly 30 miles one way, I'm not bothered by this. I'm more concerned with the other drivers and this ties into a few of my struggles here is I'm stretched thin on income so I have to drive 55-60mph, but it's also the speed limit. Most everyone else including truckers will go 67+mph and there is some nasty drivers out there who will get upset with me. Not all the time they will show it but it's tense out there. I know changing these drivers habits isn't going to be solved overnight but, I know God can provide a path for me as he knows when I'm on the road so kind people are on the road or at least God can keep the rude people at bay. So prayers on that as well.

Now I very well could have a job opportunity or opportunities to choose from in Kansas, around De Soto. It would hopefully be less stressful in driving, the pay and cost of living is better out there. I'm hoping to have a kind environment that enables me to shine better as while I'm blessed with a nice home and I recently got a newer vehicle. I also kept my older 22 year old vehicle as its reliable, mechanically I kept it in good shape, it's been a good vehicle and it's got plenty of life left. The only problem is the frame is rusted, it's still solid so I have something to work with as I can do necessary work myself on it. I'm a novice when it comes to welding, I'm willing to learn but I figure it's a good vehicle to turn into a hot rod or whatever, even keep it as a daily or a farm car. Either way it's sentimental as it's been my ride for so long. I did buy the newer vehicle in case something were to go wrong with my other vehicle and I'm not out of a vehicle.

My other ambitious goal is to fix older vehicles that doesn't work and make them roadworthy to either sell or donate so this move to Kansas would potentially give me an opportunity to do this. That's if I can get a place with a big enough garage that I can keep several vehicles inside and be able to work on them.

Now with all this said in mind I'm still not sure on the correct path on what jobs are out there in Kansas. I did recently got a nice raise at my current job which does alleviate my financial situation, but just barely. And being in Illinois I feel is just a money pit, property taxes here are crazy which is the main reason why I'm struggling here. I already do think going to Kansas will enable me to make a proper living. I got stuff at my current house to take care of. I need better appliances and a few other smaller things. One big problem here is that I have 2 separate cracked bedrooms windows I currently just have tape over to reinforce them with and the older windows especially a sliding door to the balcony let air in making it less energy efficient.

So while I could potentially sell the place as is, I'm praying God will lead me in on this so I'm not losing much money here and not leaving the next potential owner with this problem. Also I need to get myself into gear to go through my stuff I plan on getting rid of plus, too getting the appliances in order. Sure I can get some used ones in better shape. But well... the women and driving thing has me pretty stressed.

We're not all perfect and make mistakes and I have not made the best decisions in life. But I'm praying God can lead me on the right path.

Sorry this is a lot to soak in here and I'm blessed in the fact I do have a lot that God has given me and I really would like to return the favor and help others feel blessed. So pray for my struggles and pray God will steer me in the correct direction. A lot here I'm still in the dark on. Thank you for hearing me out.


Edit: I think I know the source of the women at work, lusting me. I was reading another post in the forum here and while I wouldn't call it pornography I would feel lustful with models, ended up being nude so well soft-porn I guess you would call it. I don't know for sure if this is really an issue but I supposed considering most of my life women would reject me. I'm 42 now but I've been involved with looking up models on the internet since I was 18. Never it was a serious problem until I got involved with a married woman at work. Nothing serious happened but we had sexual tension. I saw the error of my way here through praying with God and speaking with others about this situation. I think the fact she's married is what separated us. It's sort of a long story but basically she's no longer working there and then I declared to never get involved with anyone I work with. Which is why I'm stressed out and avoiding any contact with women at work who appear to be lusting me. I've all but stopped looking at nude women's photos for the most part. The couple of women I still kind of know, we don't really interact too much is all that's left as I'm forcing myself to stop being lustful with most models. I don't really know if there is a thing with these women but I try to pull away, it doesn't always work however..


I think once I get this new life in Kansas i can really focus my time and energy into car repair it will become easier. Having the garage/shop near or attached to the home would allow me to utilize my energy more wisely.


Definitely needs prayers, I do care about these women as one of them is still supposedly living in Ukraine.
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If you are driving 5 over you are doing all you can to maintain peace within the guidelines of the law.

As far as praying for you, it is limited in what it can do. You are responsible for your salvation, Gods people have the responsibility to help, but cannot do it for you, you have to: Zep 2:3 Seek ye Jehovah, all ye meek of the earth, that have kept his ordinances; seek righteousness, seek meekness: it may be ye will be hid in the day of Jehovah`s anger.
 
Highway54 thank you. I know I'm not the only one having to deal with unkind drivers, which is why I made a separate post as it needs to be addressed. I've seen enough videos to know road rage is a serious problem in America and even in other countries. I'm just fed up with the impatient, dangerous drivers that don't only care about their safety but others as well. Hence the reason we need it addressed. We put the effort in some things but not others. A sign on the highway that says "share the road, not your anger" not only shows it's not working but clearly road rage is a serious problem in America.
 
So at work they decided after finishing this one part they wanted me and the other guy on the other side of plant 4.

It wouldnt be a big deal if I wasn't having to be eye candy for some of the women there. Its ridiculous, first dealing with impatient road rage drivers now dealing with lusting women... unbelievable.
 
About a week or more ago i hit a pothole which caused the wheel bearings in the hub assembly to make noise at 30-45. I already replaced this thing twice, once because of old age and it kept setting off the service vehicle light then I did hit a pothole with it which was making a loud clicking noise which then I just decided to replace even though it was past the warranty.

Money is tight right now so it hasn't made noise at highway speeds (hard to tell with the engine drone) although it started to (maybe) but then didn't and it wasn't noisy when driving into work this morning. It must be temperature sensitive. Anyway it wouldnt be a big deal to drive on but the other side which was also replaced due to be worn out, the sensor on that side isnt working. The wiring on that hub assembly doesn't look protected so I gotta figure out why it's not working, it's an ongoing issue that now it turns off the traction and abs controls, usually not a big deal, car handles fine without it but with this stuff on I'm unable to monitor the other side without using a scan tool which is probably more than $300 and as I said money is tight right now.

Ideally if I gotta replace one side, the other side should just be replaced and its probably slightly cheaper if i do both. Because I don't want to replace the one side where the pothole damage when the other side with the broken sensor probably needs to be replaced so I can monitor the 2 rear ones.

This wouldn't be a big deal if the front left didn't get hit by a pothole, I would have then have the other one replaced. I gotta find out what mileage I replaced the front left If its around 100k then I'll just replace it then. I think its under 60k though.

Great.. anyway pray this left front hub assembly holds up for me.
 
MayGodHeal said:
Hi, I'm new here and while I have some struggles and other praises/blessings I could definitely use a lot of prayers here. I got a lot here for people to absorb so grab a coffee and I pray you find time out of the day to hear me out.

First off I currently love my job. The people there are generally kind and while conflicts still arise and the job itself is far from perfect, like some of the machines I operate don't work correctly, (they're old but can function well if correctly in place, properly maintained) and the parts I make then do not come out with perfect quality, or should I say ideal quality. The leaders there are not always trying to get the machines to work better. So it's a real struggle as the machines are finicky.

The biggest 2 problems with my job is, 1 the women there are extremely lustful and I've noticed they're trying to get my attention, a few in quality control where I tend to be forced to interact with always seems to find problems with my parts, part of that is the machines don't operate correctly. The second part is that in those few women, the machines don't even produce decent parts. Which i find interesting.. other women just be in my path as I'm going on break and despite me being single it's kind of difficult for me to concentrate on work and really I prefer to stick with that as ideally work isn't a dating center. You're expected to provide a service for the people you work for.

As for women at work appearing to lust me for no apparent reason it's unclear if I'm giving off some kind of energy or it's something I'm not doing right. I do like a few women I kinda know online but it's really vague and I don't really quite know what the deal is with this. It's just that I'm not going to engage with any of these women as it doesn't feel right to me as God has already shown me a different path.

Second issue is driving there and back. While yes it's roughly 30 miles one way, I'm not bothered by this. I'm more concerned with the other drivers and this ties into a few of my struggles here is I'm stretched thin on income so I have to drive 55-60mph, but it's also the speed limit. Most everyone else including truckers will go 67+mph and there is some nasty drivers out there who will get upset with me. Not all the time they will show it but it's tense out there. I know changing these drivers habits isn't going to be solved overnight but, I know God can provide a path for me as he knows when I'm on the road so kind people are on the road or at least God can keep the rude people at bay. So prayers on that as well.

Now I very well could have a job opportunity or opportunities to choose from in Kansas, around De Soto. It would hopefully be less stressful in driving, the pay and cost of living is better out there. I'm hoping to have a kind environment that enables me to shine better as while I'm blessed with a nice home and I recently got a newer vehicle. I also kept my older 22 year old vehicle as its reliable, mechanically I kept it in good shape, it's been a good vehicle and it's got plenty of life left. The only problem is the frame is rusted, it's still solid so I have something to work with as I can do necessary work myself on it. I'm a novice when it comes to welding, I'm willing to learn but I figure it's a good vehicle to turn into a hot rod or whatever, even keep it as a daily or a farm car. Either way it's sentimental as it's been my ride for so long. I did buy the newer vehicle in case something were to go wrong with my other vehicle and I'm not out of a vehicle.

My other ambitious goal is to fix older vehicles that doesn't work and make them roadworthy to either sell or donate so this move to Kansas would potentially give me an opportunity to do this. That's if I can get a place with a big enough garage that I can keep several vehicles inside and be able to work on them.

Now with all this said in mind I'm still not sure on the correct path on what jobs are out there in Kansas. I did recently got a nice raise at my current job which does alleviate my financial situation, but just barely. And being in Illinois I feel is just a money pit, property taxes here are crazy which is the main reason why I'm struggling here. I already do think going to Kansas will enable me to make a proper living. I got stuff at my current house to take care of. I need better appliances and a few other smaller things. One big problem here is that I have 2 separate cracked bedrooms windows I currently just have tape over to reinforce them with and the older windows especially a sliding door to the balcony let air in making it less energy efficient.

So while I could potentially sell the place as is, I'm praying God will lead me in on this so I'm not losing much money here and not leaving the next potential owner with this problem. Also I need to get myself into gear to go through my stuff I plan on getting rid of plus, too getting the appliances in order. Sure I can get some used ones in better shape. But well... the women and driving thing has me pretty stressed.

We're not all perfect and make mistakes and I have not made the best decisions in life. But I'm praying God can lead me on the right path.

Sorry this is a lot to soak in here and I'm blessed in the fact I do have a lot that God has given me and I really would like to return the favor and help others feel blessed. So pray for my struggles and pray God will steer me in the correct direction. A lot here I'm still in the dark on. Thank you for hearing me out.


Edit: I think I know the source of the women at work, lusting me. I was reading another post in the forum here and while I wouldn't call it pornography I would feel lustful with models, ended up being nude so well soft-porn I guess you would call it. I don't know for sure if this is really an issue but I supposed considering most of my life women would reject me. I'm 42 now but I've been involved with looking up models on the internet since I was 18. Never it was a serious problem until I got involved with a married woman at work. Nothing serious happened but we had sexual tension. I saw the error of my way here through praying with God and speaking with others about this situation. I think the fact she's married is what separated us. It's sort of a long story but basically she's no longer working there and then I declared to never get involved with anyone I work with. Which is why I'm stressed out and avoiding any contact with women at work who appear to be lusting me. I've all but stopped looking at nude women's photos for the most part. The couple of women I still kind of know, we don't really interact too much is all that's left as I'm forcing myself to stop being lustful with most models. I don't really know if there is a thing with these women but I try to pull away, it doesn't always work however..


I think once I get this new life in Kansas i can really focus my time and energy into car repair it will become easier. Having the garage/shop near or attached to the home would allow me to utilize my energy more wisely.


Definitely needs prayers, I do care about these women as one of them is still supposedly living in Ukraine.
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First things first. Let’s start with where you live. Remember that we are in this world but not part of it. Jesus left us tk shine his light around us. This being said, if these women are being nice to you, be nice to them. Think of them as coworkers rather than sex objects. If for so long you thought about women in a certain way, start thinking about them differently and do for them what you would do for anybody else, putting limits on what you do for each other. This should take the stress out somewhat.
Second, it sounds like the house needs some work before being sold. You may want to work on the house to make it salable before thinking about moving away.
From what I have read, it sounds like you have too many worries. Try to identify the main problems causing all these worries and focus on those seeking the will of God. in these situations. It may or may not be the will of God to find a new job closer to home or to move away. While you wait the answer from God on these things, ask for God’s help to deal with the problems you are now facing and be open to different solutions. Maybe one of these women knows someone who can help you start your business closer to home, and there go your problems. Letting God solve your problems means that you are open to different possibilities which you might llike or not rather than twist his hand.
 
Daniel in the Lions’ Den well, I feel like the women there are treating me as sexual objects (yeah that is possible). Not every woman there mind you. It started with this married woman. Yes and I fell for lusting her and maybe that messed me up in more ways than I could imagine. I figure it's just better if I focus on the work.

I just don't know of the intentions of some of these women and we're from different cultures. I never had this level of issue when I was working in retail. Of course that's not without it's own set of issues which I had made it into a rule, don't get involved with women you work with.

I know I can't just run away from all this, but at the same time I need space from these particular women. When I walk into work its like I feel like I'm being objectified from these women and they get off on attention. And I can sense its sexual as well. So I try pulling away and it's like they're seeing that and try to push harder...

Well, it may be possible to sell my place as is, replacing the appliances though is must to ensure proper functionality. I currently just make them work. And its really not the driving distance with work, I could still have to deal with frustrating driving.

With all the devil worshipping in plain view I think prayers are needed more than anything else. These are difficult times and people seem to be more inclined to sin. While these women may know something about a closer job, its highly doubtful..

The married woman seemed to have trouble with lust as well. Just that it's the same issues with these certain women and I don't even have any interest in them, but they seem to, but don't question why I avoid interacting with them. I can't really deal with too many problems and I got all these problems without any solution, especially the women.

Even the few women I worked in retail I could carry a co worker friendship without having any tension. I even liked them but kept it as friends. I don't know what's even happening here with the women at my current job and its really scaring me to be honest. I don't feel comfortable around them at all...
 
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Daniel in the Lions’ Den well, I feel like the women there are treating me as sexual objects (yeah that is possible). Not every woman there mind you. It started with this married woman. Yes and I fell for lusting her and maybe that messed me up in more ways than I could imagine. I figure it's just better if I focus on the work.

I just don't know of the intentions of some of these women and we're from different cultures. I never had this level of issue when I was working in retail. Of course that's not without it's own set of issues which I had made it into a rule, don't get involved with women you work with.

I know I can't just run away from all this, but at the same time I need space from these particular women. When I walk into work its like I feel like I'm being objectified from these women and they get off on attention. And I can sense its sexual as well. So I try pulling away and it's like they're seeing that and try to push harder...

Well, it may be possible to sell my place as is, replacing the appliances though is must to ensure proper functionality. I currently just make them work. And its really not the driving distance with work, I could still have to deal with frustrating driving.

With all the devil worshipping in plain view I think prayers are needed more than anything else. These are difficult times and people seem to be more inclined to sin. While these women may know something about a closer job, its highly doubtful..

The married woman seemed to have trouble with lust as well. Just that it's the same issues with these certain women and I don't even have any interest in them, but they seem to, but don't question why I avoid interacting with them. I can't really deal with too many problems and I got all these problems without any solution, especially the women.

Even the few women I worked in retail I could carry a co worker friendship without having any tension. I even liked them but kept it as friends. I don't know what's even happening here with the women at my current job and its really scaring me to be honest. I don't feel comfortable around them at all...
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Prayers are needed, indeed, no argument. However, keep in mind that you cannot control what others do, only what you do; therefore, it is important not only how you react, but also how you act. Jesus not only taught us that lust is a sin, but also hanged around sinners. For the time being, your best offensive move towards them is to find others at work to keep you company, and if ever they will approach you more seriously, make sure you are around your friends, and pay attention to what these women bring up in their discussions and share what you think with them, and let them understand what your intentions are. They will appreciate this. Discussions about beliefs can break attractions. But again, you would have to be more active in this aspect. Instead of saying, “Leave me alone”, ask God for wisdom about what to say. Look at the parables Jesus told sinners, and try to learn from them. Maybe read books about how others understand the parables of Jesus, and learn how to act like Jesus not only towards the women at work, but also towards others you meet. Also, talk to a pastor or someone you know is a godly person and ask their opinion about how you could be more active in this matter. Obviously, you cannot avoid each other, so learn how you can deal with meeting them.
 
MayGodHeal said:
Daniel in the Lions’ Den well, I feel like the women there are treating me as sexual objects (yeah that is possible). Not every woman there mind you. It started with this married woman. Yes and I fell for lusting her and maybe that messed me up in more ways than I could imagine. I figure it's just better if I focus on the work.

I just don't know of the intentions of some of these women and we're from different cultures. I never had this level of issue when I was working in retail. Of course that's not without it's own set of issues which I had made it into a rule, don't get involved with women you work with.

I know I can't just run away from all this, but at the same time I need space from these particular women. When I walk into work its like I feel like I'm being objectified from these women and they get off on attention. And I can sense its sexual as well. So I try pulling away and it's like they're seeing that and try to push harder...

Well, it may be possible to sell my place as is, replacing the appliances though is must to ensure proper functionality. I currently just make them work. And its really not the driving distance with work, I could still have to deal with frustrating driving.

With all the devil worshipping in plain view I think prayers are needed more than anything else. These are difficult times and people seem to be more inclined to sin. While these women may know something about a closer job, its highly doubtful..

The married woman seemed to have trouble with lust as well. Just that it's the same issues with these certain women and I don't even have any interest in them, but they seem to, but don't question why I avoid interacting with them. I can't really deal with too many problems and I got all these problems without any solution, especially the women.

Even the few women I worked in retail I could carry a co worker friendship without having any tension. I even liked them but kept it as friends. I don't know what's even happening here with the women at my current job and its really scaring me to be honest. I don't feel comfortable around them at all...
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Another thing, since you said that there are other problems, see what you can do about these other problems. This should clear up your mind and help you think about what is more important. If it’s medical, talk to a doctor. If it’s personal, talk to your friends, and since you are from another culture, you have the advantage of thinking differently. Were you born overseas? If yes, this should give you an edge over anyone living here, because you know the American way of thinking. and in any given circumstance, you can think about an issue and respond to it in other ways other than the American way. Take what’s good from the American culture and combine it with what’s good from your own culture and you will see the results.
 
Daniel in the Lions’ Den I noticed something strange. One, one of these ladies i had trouble with hasn't been around. I wonder if anger built up kind of did something, not sure. Then overnight I had some kind of runs... happened again when I got to work but, I felt really sick. Some people might refer it to a ghost sickness and I'm thinking something happened.

I'm not the only one affected either. I noticed a few Instagram women mentioned this and the other weird thing is it appears the bots on there kept adding me, not sure if they were all bots but considering I had been kind of angry I logged out of the app and deleted it off my main screen. I don't know if there is a correlation but well these women also tend to be attention seekers.

I don't know, maybe something changed when I had anger built up. Maybe God wanted me angry enough. Again I'm not sure whether or not its something attached to me, because it seemed odd to me that happened. And for now I'm not going to associate with any women, not sure if this changes anything but today I never saw that woman and no other women bothered me today, yet anyway.

It's too soon to tell but if there is something attached to me, prayers are going to be the best thing for this. I know the devil is working overtime right now so I think he's trying to feed into my weaknesses.

I did move away from looking at naked women which in the past I did, but that changed. Also too having arguments on LGBT, transwomen telling them I would only be with a real born female. I'm starting to think something is going on there with that and I wasn't careful at the time.

I also try to stop talking to too many people online avoiding conflict with the left as many in their ranks also are evil people (in my experience anyway with dealing with them). I dont know if something did happen but anyway if something is attached, prayers are the best thing. Also hopefully this Sunday I'll go to my church and also ask for prayers there.

Yeah occasionally the random woman might be lusting, and usually that's not an issue but with everything going on, its really best to avoid the situation as best as possible. I've been focusing on the work which is enough to avoid sinning in that retrospect.

Even then I might be eye candy to them and the idea is to "out of sight, out of mind". If we don't meet, the lust doesn't exist. I do get it, it can't always be avoided but God makes it so it really isn't a huge problem. This problem was concurrent with other women.

For the longest time I thought interacting with women online might be easier to handle but, maybe not? I don't know.. either way I'm taking a break with that while things here appear to be different. Some may miss me I don't know.. nothing is serious though as far as I'm aware. If not maybe theyll try contacting me lol.
 
MayGodHeal said:
Also too having arguments on LGBT, transwomen telling them I would only be with a real born female. I'm starting to think something is going on there with that and I wasn't careful at the time.
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I pray that God may heal you of your worries, and listen to what God has to tell you. Trust that God will work, and at the same time, follow the advice of those who are qualified to give it to you. Lord, I pray for MayGodHeal to know how to respond to tough situations and and complete Your work in him.
 
Daniel in the Lions’ Den one more thing to note.. the problem with the women at work is still an issue. Anyway after I fell into lust with this married woman, and finally came to my senses. I learned a lesson in this, including my past experiences is when you are at work focus on the work.

I think these women at work are battling the lust issue as well. However, I can't interact with them because otherwise I may fall into lust again and it's a powerful thing. I learned a difficult lesson and I had to force the end of my lust issues with the married woman. It nearly killed me, psychologically.


I think a prayer for these women that they are unable to focus on their jobs and instead they focus on me instead thats sinful. The biggest problem is, well there isn't anything i can do about it. They have to learn their own lessons in this. Unfortunately they haven't yet.
 
MayGodHeal, whether the temptation comes from these women or anything else, it is always going to follow you. You have to learn how to deal with it, not just run from it. Apostle Paul had a lot to say about relationships. Read his epistles and see how you can apply what Paul says at work and in your personal life.
 
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