Like I have said, I understand ideal Christians do not hate. However, you are saying people who do not live up to the ideal are not Christians. I disagree. I still see those who use the faith of Christianity to justify hate are still Christians, and often use scripture to back it up. (example: the god hates fags movement.) This is not a problem exclusively of Christianity; its a problem of religion.
I would agree. In fact, the "justification" for all kinds of horrible atrocities can be found in ANY strongly held belief, be it religious, political , (or nationalism in general) etc. depending on how the proponents of those beliefs interpret and act upon them. An unfortunate thing that occurs to me is that it appears that organized belief structures (in most any form) are responsible for fathoms of tears. This, I think, has less to do with the belief itself in most cases, and has everything to do with our tendency towards xenophobia. Christianity, by definition, states that EVERYONE, including Christians, are fallible, imperfect people. (If we weren’t, there would be no Christianity). Another thing I’ve noticed is that all of the 4 atheists I’ve known were not raised that way. They came from EXTREMELY religious, fundamentalist backgrounds, and are still well versed in the history and beliefs of their former religion.
Having said that, as a non-fundamentalist Christian myself, I’m not sure that atheism can be proved to be responsible for the perceived damage. I imagine that those who think it is would say that abortion, gay marriage, premarital sex, etc. is the result of atheism, although many Christians believe/practice these things. The reason some may think that the world is going down the tubes isn’t because there are too many atheists, but because there are too many self-rightous jerks: atheist and christian and muslim and democrat and republican and vegetarian or whatever. Christians are not always the selfless good guys, and atheists are not necessarily the bad guys destroying society. We all have the ability to do that regardless of our spiritual beliefs, and other Christians have done more damage to my faith than any atheist. What do some other people think of the minister who was seen at that gay rights thing awhile back with the sign that read “God Hates Fags†, or abortion clinic bombings, or the fact that Pat Robertson owns a Diamond mine in Africa?