Abraham was only able to believe God because God gave him that faith.
You've made this point several times, but have not provided any verses that says this.
Abraham did not believe, then God gave him the faith.
How are you using the word 'faith'; as a noun or verb. If as a verb, then believing and having faith are the same. But if as a noun, then 'faith' becomes what is believed.
You keep trying to line me up with Calvinists for some reason.
Only because of some of the things you've posted.
I am sure you have a point behind it, but you should also know that your belief in how eternal security is defined comes straight from the Calvinist doctrine.
No, it comes from what the Bible says about it.
So do you believe that Mankind is actually good?
No. Not at all. Mankind is totally depraved, which means unable to save themselves. But that doesn't mean they can't believe in their lost state.
There are many passages that state a person cannot come to God on their own volition. Both direct and indirect.
I disagree with this.
Psa 14:1-3
To the choirmaster. Of David.
The fool says in his heart, “There is no God.”
They are corrupt, they do abominable deeds,
there is none who does good.
The LORD looks down from heaven on the children of man,
to see if there are any who understand,
They have all turned aside; together they have become corrupt;
there is none who does good,
not even one.
Please note in v.1 the subject of this section: "the fool who says, 'there is no God'." It's about atheists.
Do you think mankind just all of a sudden wills up enough 'good' in himself to desire God, to believe in Him?
It isn't about what one "wills up". It's about hearing the gospel and believing it as truth. Rom 10:
13 for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”
14 How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?
15 And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”
16 But not all the Israelites accepted the good news. For Isaiah says, “Lord, who has believed our message?”
17 Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ.
And this is where one believes from:
10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
One believes from their own heart.
You quote John 6:45, do you see that it is God who first comes to man - then man in response believes in Christ?
Absolutely correct!! God has already made the first move. All that's left is for man to respond to God's promise.