We're talking about baptizing adults that are saved.
Which 2,000 year old practice are you speaking of?
In the beginning adults were baptized AFTER they came to believe...
children in the family were baptized because the Christian community knew they would be raised Christian
and that was a way of including them in the community and a way of blessing them with the Holy Spirit...
that their parents would explain to them and help them to live it.
This is not done anymore.
I think, right now, some kids know more catechism than their parents do.
It was good ole' Augustine that changed to the doctrine that infants had to be baptized or they'd end up in hell.
This was in the 400's. Over 300 years after Jesus ascended.
This was not believed in the early church.
So, yes, I think it would be nice to go back to what the early church taught.
If you believe everything the CCC teaches, then you are a perfect Catholic.
I'm not sure how you come to terms with everything, but I respect you for it.
As to being able to go to heaven even if someone born again does not get baptized,
yes, of course it's possible.
The CCC even states so.
Augustine seems to get blamed for a lot.
Here are some quotes from the Early Fathers from
This Rock magazine Sep 1991 - all before Augustine.
Irenaeus
"He [Jesus] came to save all through himself; all, I say, who through him are reborn in God--infants, and children, and youths, and old men. Therefore he passed through every age, becoming an infant for infants, sanctifying infants; a child for children, sanctifying those who are of that age . . . [so that] he might be the perfect teacher in all things, perfect not only in respect to the setting forth of truth, perfect also in respect to relative age" (
Against Heresies 2:22:4 [A.D. 180]).
Hippolytus
"Where there is no scarcity of water the stream shall flow through the baptismal font or pour into it from above; but if water is scarce, whether on a constant condition or on occasion, then use whatever water is available. Let them remove their clothing. Baptize first the children, and if they can speak for themselves let them do so. Otherwise, let their parents or other relatives speak for them" (
The Apostolic Tradition 21:16 [A.D. 215]).
Origen
"Every soul that is born into flesh is soiled by the filth of wickedness and sin . . . In the Church baptism is given for the remission of sins, and, according to the usage of the Church, baptism is given even to infants. If there were nothing in infants which required the remission of sins and nothing in them pertinent to forgiveness, the grace of baptism would seem superfluous" (
Homilies on Leviticus 8:3 [A.D. 244]).
Origen
"The Church received from the apostles the tradition of giving baptism even to infants. The apostles, to whom were committed the secrets of divine mysteries [sacraments], knew there is in everyone innate strains of [original] sin, which must be washed away through water and the Spirit" (
Commentaries on Romans 5:9 [A.D. 244]).
Cyprian
"As to what pertains to the case of infants: You [Fidus] said that they ought not to be baptized within the second or third day after their birth, that the old law of circumcision must be taken into consideration, and that you did not think that one should be baptized and sanctified within the eighth day after his birth.
In our council it seemed to us far otherwise. No one agreed to the course which you thought should be taken. Rather, we all judge that the mercy and grace of God ought to be denied to no man born" (
Letter to Fidus 64:2 [A.D. 251]).
Cyprian
"If, in the case of the worst sinners and those who formerly sinned much against God, when afterwards they believe, the remission of their sins is granted and no one is held back from baptism and grace, how much more, then, should an infant not be held back, who, having but recently been born, has done no sin, except that, born of the flesh according to Adam, he has contracted the contagion of that old death from his first being born. For this very reason does he [an infant] approach more easily to receive the remission of sins: because the sins forgiven him are not his own but those of another" (ibid. 64:5).
Gregory of Nazianz
"Do you have an infant child? Allow sin no opportunity; rather, let the infant be sanctified from childhood. From his most tender age let him be consecrated by the Spirit. Do you fear the seal [of baptism] because of the weakness of nature? Oh, what a pusillanimous mother and of how little faith!" (
Oration on Holy Baptism 40:7 [A.D. 381]).
"'Well enough,' some will say, 'for those who ask for baptism, but what do you have to say about those who are still children, and aware neither of loss nor of grace? Shall we baptize them too?' Certainly [I respond], if there is any pressing danger. Better that they be sanctified unaware, than that they depart unsealed and uninitiated" (ibid. 40:28).
Ambrose
"Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit he cannot enter the kingdom of God. No one is excepted, not [even] the infant." (
On Abraham 1:3:21 [A.D. 387]).