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Suppose this person repents and returns to his "saved" state and "shows" his faith again. How can he or anyone else tell whether THIS time he has "true faith" as opposed to the "false faith" he had last time, yet didn't know it? If God's Grace wasn't REALLY God's Grace the first time, how is ANYONE to tell the second?
But OSAS says I can be 'faithless' and still be saved.
Can I stop calling on the name of the Lord in faith and still have the promised benefit reserved for those who call upon his name in faith?
OSAS says, 'yes'. But scripture says you'd be giving away the very thing that secured God's grace in the first place--IOW, you will no longer be fulfilling God's condition of faith in order to be saved.
OK. Let's see where this leads. A person is saved, "shows" he is saved by his actions then apostacizes. Your contention is that his "salvation" and his "actions" were misinterpreted by him and everyone else, that he "really wasn't saved in the first place"? If I have your view wrong, please tell me.
No I'm not saying that "his "salvation" and his "actions" were misinterpreted by him and everyone else, that he "really wasn't saved in the first place".
What I am saying is that "grace" has been misinterpreted. Some people when they hear the "grace" message they think that even if they sin or do nothing in faith that it is OK with God. It is not OK with God in my opinion or experience.
I am not judging as to whether they were saved or are saved.
When God gave us His message of Grace through Paul even Paul's own questioned, "should we keep on sinning that grace should abound?" Paul says, "Heaven forbid!"
You keep wanting to give me this "never saved in the first place" Calvinist view that if someone backslides, they were never saved to begin with.
It is NOT MY VIEW.
To me, James is teaching what faith looks like to Jews who have been steeped in Mosaic Law. Not that the message is not one we should also take seriously, we should. The very first thing he address' is LOVE, and what it looks like compared to hypocrisy. Then he teaches that faith is not talk, faith walks. He gives two examples, Abraham who is giant in faith and God's own and Rahab's one act of faith and a pagan until this one act of faith.
If he can get people to believe they are saved by a one time declaration and then will always be "cool with God", he has won.
I agree with this statement but not just because of their own life. We intend to do a lot of navel gazing. When we choose to be outside of the will of God for us we affect other people's lives (which is not love) we set a bad example and don't do the works that He would have us do. We can become a stumbling block.
So is satan winning, in their witness, yes. Will he win in the end, I don't think so.
I believe God is BIGGER and He will have His way no matter what or whomever tries to stand in His way.
apostacizes
Ephesians 2:5-6Show me where it says I can stop calling on the name of the Lord for the forgiveness of sins and stop depending on the blood of Christ, and still be saved.
Suppose this person repents and returns to his "saved" state and "shows" his faith again. How can he or anyone else tell whether THIS time he has "true faith" as opposed to the "false faith" he had last time, yet didn't know it? If God's Grace wasn't REALLY God's Grace the first time, how is ANYONE to tell the second?
You are the one making the assumption that they were "never saved" or "lost and are saved again".
I do not make either assumption. It is NOT my business to make either assumption.
Only God knows the heart of another person. We are to act in love, not tell someone they are not saved.
We are to speak God's Words of mercy, love into their lives. It is His Word and presence that changes hearts and lives, not our assumptions about another person or where they stand in God's eyes.
His Word says, that it is the 'goodness' of God that brings a person to repentance. Whether saved or not saved, imo. And I am living proof of that in my opinion.
If you want to know if someone is saved or not so you know how to help them (the intentions of your heart are good) ask God. If He thinks it is any of your business then He may tell you. Remember what Jesus said to Peter, "what business is it of yours?"
It is God's business how He works in anyone's life and He will do as He sees fit.
Just my opinions.
I'm a little confused here, Deb. My point above was the DOCTRINE OF OSAS is a horrible doctrine because, when followed to it's conclusion, it teaches that, even if one leads a life in rebellion to Jesus, he will be saved due to a one time declaration.
In Jethro's example, his lady friend committed adultery and became a "party girl". I'm not judging HER, but her ACTIONS. Even when she was in the thralls of this BEHAVIOR, she still thought she was "cool with God"
You agree we have free will, right?
God is bigger than Satan, but I don't think He will "have His way" even if WE DON'T want Him to. We can reject God, He allows it.
Ephesians 2:5-6
English Standard Version (ESV)
5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
Now, if we HAVE been saved(past tense) even while dead and currently seated (present tense) with Him,
I never said that about anyone. We are to tell people that certain BEHAVIORS are wrong, correct? We are to tell people that IF they claim to have faith, IF they claim to be Christian, they have to change their lives and repent, correct? We are to tell them that their BEHAVIOR shows if their FAITH IS A TRUE SAVING FAITH, correct? IF we SEE their behavior is sinful, we should TELL THEM TO REPENT, correct? Please stop trying to paint me as judgmental.
He doesn't tell us to "ask God" for some private revelation on the state of someone's soul.
Ephesians 2:5-6
English Standard Version (ESV)
5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
Now, if we HAVE been saved(past tense) even while dead and currently seated (present tense) with Him,
Whooooaaaa...there, big fella. Context, please.
Paul is obviously talking about a person PRE-salvation. Are you really trying to make the case that we can STOP believing and be saved anyway?
Ephesians 2:5-6
English Standard Version (ESV)
5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,
Now, if we HAVE been saved(past tense) even while dead and currently seated (present tense) with Him,
Whooooaaaa...there, big fella. Context, please.
Paul is obviously talking about a person PRE-salvation. Are you really trying to make the case that we can STOP believing and be saved anyway?
First i quote a verse that has SAVED in it written to a Christian church, and your logic has it talking about pre-salvation. That's funny.
Second (whoooooaaaaa, with five o's and a's) you're not MY dad. And your no cowboy driving a stalin either.
Third, as for your false dichotomy, there's at least one more possibility. A person could come back a second time into salvation. But the real issue is what the Scriptures say. And yes in context.
And the context of eph 2 is so clearly about a Christian that it say:
18 For through him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father. 19 So then you are no longer strangers and aliens,[d] but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God,
No longer strangers?
Members of the household of God?
Whoooaaa!
I never said that about anyone. We are to tell people that certain BEHAVIORS are wrong, correct? We are to tell people that IF they claim to have faith, IF they claim to be Christian, they have to change their lives and repent, correct? We are to tell them that their BEHAVIOR shows if their FAITH IS A TRUE SAVING FAITH, correct? IF we SEE their behavior is sinful, we should TELL THEM TO REPENT, correct? Please stop trying to paint me as judgmental.
I apologize, I did not mean to painted you as judgment, truly. I think you are very sincere. I think if you read my last post you will see that I am not trying to dodge answering your questions.
If I were a pastor I would not be doing my job if I did not instruct in sinful behaviors and the consequences.
As a lay person, I can state my opinions and Give Scripture for those opinions.
If I am led into a private conversation with another person I should not condone bad behaviors. I should give the Word about what God clearly says in His Word. Both against a sinful life style and about His mercy and grace for them. Instruction in righteousness is correct, condemnation is not. I would never say to some "IF YOU are a Christian, you wouldn't be doing...." Because I know when I look inside in my flesh, I don't see perfection. Therefore, the same message would return to me "IF YOU are a Christian you wouldn't ....".
If we are concerned for other people, for both their lives now and in eternity we need to give them God Word, with mercy and a humble heart.
I think that you would do the same because you are a child of God. You know you are not perfect, so therefore, you would be able to give them all the Word in love.
He doesn't tell us to "ask God" for some private revelation on the state of someone's soul.
What I meant by that, is that what we say to one person in delivering the Word may be different than someone else, at least if we want it to be effective. So we should always pray for God to show us. He will give us the Words to say, if we trust Him and ask. But He may say it's none of your business. He may not want me to be the one to speak.
It's interesting to note, that in my experience, which is limited I might add. Is that we can't always judge by the response we get just where that person is coming from. If they respond in anger, they may truly be hardhearted towards God BUT they may be under conviction and you have just brought it to the light and they don't like it, conviction does not feel good. Or they may just smile nod their heads seem to be in agreement and will immediately dismiss it when out of your presence. That is why prayer is so important, what should I say Lord?
John 6:37
English Standard Version (ESV)
37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out.
For the life of me, I cannot think of how this OSAS passage is not a sweet, sweet passage. Way better than anything any human logic. Regardless, I see no logic in disregarding this Biblical truth over the off chance that somebody might think OSAS would led to an apostate life. We came from death into life. Way go back? For a little adultery? Not me. Not to mention that, even if it were true, ( that people apostatize themselves right out of their seats in heaven, they could be pulled right back in.
of their seats in heaven, they could be pulled right back in.
I love my son. I will NEVER cast him out of my house. Would it NECESSARILY FOLLOW that he will be living under my roof until I die, or is there another scenario you can think of where he and I might part ways at some point in the future, before I croak?
of their seats in heaven, they could be pulled right back in.
I love my son. I will NEVER cast him out of my house. Would it NECESSARILY FOLLOW that he will be living under my roof until I die, or is there another scenario you can think of where he and I might part ways at some point in the future, before I croak?
This struck home 10. I did not cast my daughter out I told her the rules of the house are you will be clean and sober...She was gone...She says I kicked her out.....Yet she will always be my daughter and I hope/pray she truly cleans up her act....
IF she obeyed the rules of the house.
IF she obeyed the rules of the house.
Isn't this what God said to Abraham?