Glorydaz
I have read your post and as I understand it that is not the issue. Perhaps you will suggest what you want me to affirm.
Those who do NOT have the Holy Spirit dwelling in them are NOT God's children.
If you cannot affirm that you have the Holy Spirit dwelling in you, it's because you don't, and are none of His.
"But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his."