My views on the preexistence issue have not influenced my view of "begotten...before all worlds". What does influence that view is the misuse of γεννηθέντα which refers to a physical or spiritual conception or birth. There is absolutely no Scriptural or lexical grounds that I am aware of to force that word to mean something prior to creation. I await that evidence to disprove my view.
Here is your evidence from the scriptures again.
In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that
God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. 1 John 4:9
God sent His only begotten Son
into the world.
The Son
was not in the world, but
was sent into the world.
If God sent an angel into the world, to say, deliver a message to His prophet Daniel, then the angel would come from where God is, and being sent, the angel would go to where Daniel was.
The Son of God was with the Father where He was [Above, in Heaven], and was sent into the world [Below, to earth], to be born of a virgin and become the Son of Man [Adam].
And He said to them, “You are from beneath;
I am from above. You are of this world;
I am not of this world. John 8:23
The Son of God came from Heven to earth, having been begotten of the Father before all things.
Since He was begotten before all things, we can safely say He is before all things, which is exactly the point Paul makes in His letter to the Colossians.
And He is before all things, and in Him all things consist. Colossians 1:17
It is His word that upholds all of creation.
who being the brightness of
His glory and the express image of His person,
and upholding all things by the word of His power, when He had by Himself purged our sins, sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high, Hebrews 1:3
JLB