When did Paul say this would take place(our gathering)?The exact same as Christ taught in Matthew 24,yet nowhere did Christ mention a rapture .....
You err in assuming the gathering spoken of by necessity was to be inclusive of a group to which you could refer to as 'our'. The timing of the gathering was indeed supposed to have been in conjunction with the timetable found in Matthew 24 where Jesus is clearly quoted as saying that it was to be an event that would occur within that very generation.
The "Son of perdition" is Satan
There is no scriptural support for this conclusion. This idea is based on the pervasive error that has been widely accepted that the Satan is one and the same with the king of Babylon mentioned in Isaiah 14 and identified as the shining one (aka Lucifer). The biblical texts never depict the Satan as a being that sought to usurp the position of God from God. Satan is in fact NOT even a proper name for the evil one. What it is is a descriptive term much like the word 'god' that describes the one who possesses the qualifity of being an adversary or opposer.
After all these events or signs take place then Christ returns,so again,how can you all(rapturist)claim that Christ can return at anytime?????
I am not a 'rapturist' in the typical premillenial sense, but I am honest enough to admit that the concept of a rapture, that is being 'caught up' to be with the Christ is taught in scripture in at least one place (1 Thessalonians 4:17). From the sound of your posts it would appear that you're more than knee deep in someone's dogma. Get your facts straight then come back to me with an analysis that doesn't wreak of dogmatic error please.
The big deception is the prevailing idea that the stuff mentioned in Matthew 24, 1 John, 1 Thessalonians 4, Daniel 9, or Revelation has something to do with modern or post modern times. These 'prophetic' events were about the generation of the last days as explained by the texts themselves. Peter says it himself in his Acts discourse and Paul echoed it in 1 Corinthians 10, that they were living in the last days and it was their generation upon whom the "end of the ages had come." Hear ye them!