Some Christians believe the teachings of Paul are infallible. Did anyone believe this during his lifetime?
the answer actually seems to be yes. consdier, for starters,
the incident at antioch. we know that paul had arguments with james and peter. the most cited example is
galatians 2:11, where paul says he opposed peter to his face. there are two issues which comes down to 1) the laws of moses and 2) salvation through faith and deed. compare:
1. james 2:24 vs romans 4:1-3
2. james 2:21-24 vs Romans 10:4
and then there is the issue of paul's teaching seen to conflict with jesus'. to wit:
1. would jesus, who ministered to sinners, agree with paul's first letter to the corinthians (5:11)?
2. would jesus (matthew 25:31-46) agree with paul's second letter to the thessalonians (3:10)?
3. would jesus (matthew 7:21-27) agree with pauls's letter to the romans (3:28)?
4. would jesus, who preaches that we must be like little children, agree with, as you already cited, 1Cor 13:11?
5. would jesus (mathew 5:18-19) agree with romans 10:4 or 3:27-28
look up the passages and decide for yourself.
some people also (though not me) take issue with jesus specifically saying "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (luke 6:27, matthew 5:37), while paul only says in romans 12 "bless those who persecute you and do not curse them ... if your enemies are hungry, feed them, if they are thirsty, give them something to drink ... do not repay anyone evil for evil". some say this is not exactly saying "love your enemies", but i think it is, just as i think the whole issue of neighborly love being the most important law (paul) or second most important law (jesus) is not actually much of an issue at all. i think it's still saying the same thing, given the context of paul's letter. in fact, i think it incredible just how close both messages are.
i think you heart is in the right place, elijah23, and i think that's what matters most. i think your church sounds very loving and very christian.
1 JOHN 3:18: let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed
GALATIANS 5:22-3: But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law
ROMANS 13:10 love is the fulfillment of the law.
1 JOHN 4:8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.