stovebolts
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I see what you're saying, Jeff. Although I would not call that "anger". I would call that "resolve", because, just from a vocabulary sense, I don't equate anger with careful consideration to make change, but rather a more reactionary less thoughtful emotion. But that's semantics, and I see what you are saying.
The responses here that are making me sad are not the ones that seek to carefully address the problem and make change or create safety. The ones that make me sad are the uncontrolled reactionary desire to "pull the switch" and do something "he deserves".
So I think we are saying the same thing with different words.
(interesting note: anger comes from the Norse word for "grief". And I agree with you that often anger comes from grief and fear.)
(Which is perhaps the source of this man's angry crime.)
It may be in part semantics. But with our sadness, we do one of two things generally. We go into apathy, which means we don't do anything, or we go into anger, which attempts to resolve the issue.
I have found that men don't stay in apathy very long. We are action oreinted. We want to fix things, and fix them now, right wrong or indifferent. Women, on the other side generally are more passive, and have a tendancy to go into apathy more readily, and their anger (action to resolve the issue) is usually well thought out and doesn't present itself with bitterness.
I think that's why God made us different lol! I think it's so we could complement each other in that area.
But yes, I believe that this man committed that crime when his grief turned into anger because he couldn't control the world around him. Life wasn't the way he thought it was supposed to be. In short, he was selfish, so his anger turned to hatred because anger can make a man feel strong, and in control over something that isn't controllable. He wanted to control his feelings, and he couldn't... but he could control something that he was never intended to control, nor could he control.. His child. And he did so by taking his life. That's evil, plain evil.