I'm not going to post all the verses again that illustrate how Christ was leading His disciples and apostles to the conclusion that His retuen would be in their lifetime. I've done that several times on several threads.
So the question that remains is, if Christ said He was coming back in their lifetimes, then either He was lying or our understanding of what His coming means has to change.
Put another way, if I leave a note telling you - by name - that I am coming to see you soon and someone with the same name finds the note 2,000 years later, what is the most reasonable, logical conclusion they could draw from it: that the note was meant for them or for the person to whom it was written in the past?
This is the problem with the view some people here are taking: we know who Christ's audience was, we know what the signs were, we even know that most - if not all - were fulfilled by the time 70 AD rolled around, and yet people want to make Christ's words intended for the people of His time about us!
One doesn't have to be a preterist to understand this stuff: one simply has to begin with the premise that Christ was telling His disciples the truth and take Him at His word. That's all.
This is where we differ. i do not believe that Jesus implied that his return was near or soon, in fact he said, he himself did not no when it would be.
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Math 24v
32 Now learn
a parable of the fig tree; When his branch is yet tender, and putteth forth leaves,
ye know that summer is nigh:
( summer is the season of harvest )
33 So likewise ye, when
ye shall see all these things, know that it is near, even at the doors.
34 Verily I say unto you, This generation shall not pass, till all these things be fulfilled.
(The generation ending the harvest)
35 Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away.
36 But of that day and HOUR knoweth no man, no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only.
37 But as the days of Noe were, so shall also the coming of the Son of man be.
38 For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noe entered into the ark,
39 And knew not until the flood came, and took them all away; so shall also the coming of the Son of man be.
40 Then shall two be in the field; the one shall be taken, and the other left.
41 Two women shall be grinding at the mill; the one shall be taken, and the other left.
42 Watch therefore:
for ye know not what HOUR your Lord doth come.