Tina
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bodhitharta said:Are you saying there were no polygamous men in Jesus's day? Why didn't Jesus say that having many wives is wrong, why didn't he condemn Abraham, david, Solomon, Jacob or any other for practicing polygamy and if you consider polygamy wrong then you have to feel that there is no real 12 tribes of Israel as they didn't all come through the ORIGINAL wife.
Matthew 19:3-9
The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?†And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.†They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?†He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.â€Â
Polygamy reduces the role of the woman in marriage to that of a mistress. It is true that several Old Testament characters engaged in Polygamy, but a careful study of these cases indicates the terrible consequences attached to going outside the will of God in marriage. In the passage from Matthew 19 above, Jesus stated that the reason God overlooked divorce in times past was because of the hardness of the heart of man, not because it was part of God's plan. Jesus emphasized ONE man for ONE woman. Polygamy is a perversion of God's marriage laws similar to fornication, adultery, homosexuality, etc.
While polygamy was not wrong in ancient cultures, it was a departure from the divine institution God ordained. In the Bible there are 17 examples of polygamy from the time of Lamech to 931 AD.
13 of these men had enough power that no one could call into question their practice, they were unaccountable or no one dared approach them.
Lamech ... Genesis 4:19;
Abraham ... Genesis 16;
Esau ... Genesis 26:34; 28:9;
Jacob ... Genesis 29:30;
Ashur ... 1 Chronicles 4:5;
Gideon .... Judges 8:30;
Elkanah ... 1 Samuel 1:2;
David ... 1 Samuel 25:39-44; 2 Samuel 3:2-5; 5:13; 1 Chronicles 14:3;
Solomon ... 1 Kings 11:1-8;
Rehoboam ... 2 Chronicles 11:18-23;
Abijah .... 2 Chronicles 13:21;
Jehoram ... 2 Chronicles 21:14;
Joash ... 2 Chronicles 24:3;
Ahab ... 2 Kings 10;
Jehoiachin ... 2 Kings 24:15;
Belshazzar ... Daniel 5:2; 1 Chronicles 2:8;
Hosea ... Hosea 3:1,2.
While polygamy continued to be practiced all down through the period of Jewish history to the Captivity, there is NO instance of it on record thereafter (Gen.29:15-30, Jacob and his wives). There is NO examples of polygamy in the New Testament, and even if that had been a practice in the New Testament times, it does not mean God condoned it.
Was Abraham, David Solomon condemned or approved for practicing polygamy? Well they certainly did not get blessed for it! The fact that every polygamist in the Bible like David and Solomon (1 Chron. 14:3) were punished. This should be evidence that this is not God’s will.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
God hates divorce as well as polygamy, since it destroys the family (Mal. 2:16). Whatever the patriarchs or any Christian did wrong does not change the fact the Bible condemns it.
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