We do not go to be present with the Lord the moment we die.
We are confident, yes, well pleased rather to be absent from the body and to be present with the Lord.
2 Corinthians 5:8
When we are absent from the body at death, we will be present with the Lord.
This is true since Jesus ascended into heaven and brought those OT saints with Him from the heart of the earth.
8 Therefore He says: "When He ascended on high,
He led captivity captive, And gave gifts to men."
9 (Now this, "He ascended"--what does it mean but that He also
first descended into the lower parts of the earth?
10 He who descended is also the One who ascended far above all the heavens, that He might fill all things.)
Ephesians 4:8-10
Here are Jesus' words, that record for us a conversation between Abraham and Lazarus in the heart of the earth before Jesus descended down.
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1 Peter 3:19
19 "There was a certain rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and fared sumptuously every day.
20 But there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, full of sores, who was laid at his gate,
21 desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table. Moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.
22 So it was that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels to Abraham's bosom. The rich man also died and was buried.
23 And being in torments in Hades, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.
24 Then he cried and said, 'Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus that he may dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue;
for I am tormented in this flame.' Luke 16:19-24
and again we see Samuel speaking with Saul after Samuel had died -
15 Now
Samuel said to Saul, "Why have you disturbed me
by bringing me up?" And Saul answered, "I am deeply distressed; for the Philistines make war against me, and God has departed from me and does not answer me anymore, neither by prophets nor by dreams. Therefore I have called you, that you may reveal to me what I should do."
16 Then Samuel said: "Why then do you ask me, seeing the Lord has departed from you and has become your enemy?
17 And the Lord has done for Himself as He spoke by me. For the Lord has torn the kingdom out of your hand and given it to your neighbor, David.
1 Samuel 28:15-17
JLB