All believers can be filled with the Holy Ghost that does not mean it is their calling to be a pastor or an elder or whatever. The offices of God arent people deciding they want to be this or that, it is a calling of God for that person by the Spirit. God tells us His order in His word and women are not elders, bishops, pastors apostles. Women who are pastors and are preaching do so because they are not obeying God. Will God use them? sure God uses all things, He uses everyone. God used Judas. God using something does not mean that it is ok for the person being used to be used as such. God used babylon to chasten israel but to babylon it was sin even though God did His perfect will through them. Likewise, God does not call women to be preachers and pastors and if a woman takes upon herself that postion God may use her for the good of others but to her it is sin. God may use cancer to get a person to repent that does not mean cancer is good. God may use a contentious wife to bring humbleness to her husband that doesnt mean that the wife is good in what she does.
1Cr 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God.
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
1Ti 2:10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
1Ti 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
1Ti 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
1Ti 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
1Ti 2:14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Pauls reasoning given for women not to teach is scriptural and over reaching. It was not because of what one church was doing or the women in this other city were doing, it was because of the order of God and adam and eve.
1Cr 11:8 For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.
1Cr 11:9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
The proper order is man over the head of woman.