i know the difference. you seem to picking an argument over theological hairs. no, i was that dysfunctional. one just doenst repent from male attractions and just love women without some healing taking place, and that takes a long time.
I commend your courage in revealing that. It is nothing but another manifestation of the confusion sin has brought into our lives. So it makes you no worse than any other sinner whom God is very willing to forgive.
However you are imagining that I seek to pick a fight. Therefore I politely ask you if you would feel better not to talk with me? I would respect that as it is not my intentions to anger you or insult you.
agian God lets us reject him as that is his nature. he lets us reject him for a reason. to demonstrate to the rest or us as we reap what we sow. also, that he is good if we choose to repent as his mercy endures forever.
We already did reject him in Adam, Jason. We were all confined under Adam's sin which means he could have just destroyed us. But his love was gracious to us and so he allowed us to be born that we might have our own say in the matter as to whether we agree with Adam's choice. And that requires he let wicked ones live for a while that he can give their children that same chance to choose for themselves if they agree or disagree with the choice of their fathers.
When God destroyed those nations that he did, he did so having the power over death to resurrect the not truly wicked among them. They will be in the resurrection of the unrighteous to have that one chance to agree or disagree during the thousand year reign of Christ. But God had to remove them out of the way of the line through which the seed to save all would come else they would have destroyed that line before it could produce that seed.
So you see Jason, God has everything well covered. It is only what you do not know that confuses you about what he is doing.
now then unto my statement did God not know what esau would do and jacob? and btw that word hate isnt hate is we know it to be but rather love less as in prefered jacob over esau because of esau actions!
You are right about the meaning of the word hate there. That is good that you see that. It is hate as an action of loving less. And that is because love is also principally an action and not just an emotion.
Did God know? Not necessarily. Paul said that God made the choice between them to show us that it does not come by inheritance rights of fleshly birth but by God's choosing.
Romans 9:10 And not only this; but when Rebecca also had conceived by one, even by our father Isaac;
11 (For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth;)
12 It was said unto her, The elder shall serve the younger.
13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
14 ¶What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid.