This post is not an answer to the question. .. I will not ask again as i accept the silence to the question as an answer.
Are you going to answer my 3 questions i asked you earlier?
Still waiting...
And, to answer your question about becoming more "Christlike".
Paul said that it was not him who any longer lived but that Christ lived in him and through Him.
So, as Paul told us to "be followers of me as i follow Christ", then we are certainly supposed to become more like Christ the longer we follow them both.
We are over time, as we serve the Lord and grow in grace and learn the word, supposed to stop being babes in Christ and become the full stature of a Son of God.
Not too many do, Reba.....to be honest.
My experience is that most Christian people get lost in a few wrong scriptural ideas, get hung up for life in their denomination and its teaching, or become TV Prosperity Gospel addicts.
I believe in God prospering his Saints, i dont believe in the "Poverty Gospel"..... but i dont agree that the "Prosperity Gospel" is to ever become the main doctrine of any Preacher or Denomination as that is out of balance and creates greed in the hearts of Christians.
So, i would say that for the majority of Christians,.... they get saved, are on fire at first, then soon get trapped by what their favorite teacher leads them to believe and the more wrong it is, the more the cling to it like a life raft.
I personally think that Christians, in general, make the worst Christians.
Denominations are so often built on rigid and wrong theology that creates such divisions between believers that no one can get along with anyone unless they are in your denomination..
Ive noted for example that Pentecostals hate Baptists, Baptists hate Catholics, and Catholics think that anything that isnt sprinkled and confirmed in their "one true church" cult mentality is a cult.
And this is why i invite people to Jesus, but i dont invite them to Church, as depending on a bad decision they can make if they dont go to mine...., they can end up so locked up for life in some J-Witness Doctrine or Mormon Theological mind trap, so that they end up saved but useless for God's true service.