I'd like an explanation of what you meant by. I guess Jesus was a bit deceptive
I was being sarcastic. Jesus made it simple - man makes it hard.
MOST people who ask "Is once saved-always saved true?" are really just questioning their salvation; they USUALLY question if they are WORTHY of the Lord. I am VERY quick to point out that they are most certainly NOT worthy of Him - and that NONE OF US ARE. That is the point, salvation is by grace, not by us meeting a standard.
THis is why I keep asking: If you tell you that you can do certain things to loose your salvation, then I simply ask "What is the line?" How far do you have to go to be cast aside?
I do NOT deny that if someone TRULY turns their back on the Lord, they will be lost. But it has been my experience that when someone asks about this, they still believe, they still try to please the Lord -but they know they are failing and they get the idea they are no longer saved.
I am here, on this earth and maybe this forum - to loudly tell them that they ARE still saved.
There is far more to this life than just scripture. God intends for us to LEARN from our relationship with Him during our time here - can we all agree on that?
Can we? Or is it only about belief?
No, as JLB has pointed out, belief means more than just BELIEVING.
Losing your salvation is nearly impossible. If it were not almost impossible, I'd be lost as I sit here and type. I am about to tell you all something that I have never told ANYONE, and outside of a Christian forum I never would speak of it because non-Christians would not understand any of it.
Sunday, May 22, 1994
I was 34 then, Linda and I had been dating for almost 3 months. We were both at a point in our lives that we wanted to please the Lord, live right and be a good example to the five children that, between us, we were parenting. We'd been batting 100% - until today. We'd spent the day together without any of the kids and I should have left to head home and pick up my boys by 5pm in the afternoon. But, time with her was so precious, I had delayed. I delayed and we ended up in the pool together and THEN ended up having a wonderfully carnal and 'romantic' evening.
It is odd how AWFUL we felt after - considering how much we enjoyed our time together. But we both really felt awful. "
How can either of us condemn our kids should they become teens and end up sexually active?" "How could we thank the Lord for bringing us together by doing THIS?" I can honestly tell you I left feeling devastated and I felt that I had dis-respected Linda as well - I SURE didn't show HER what a spiritual leader is like, did I? We prayed together and I left to get my boys. I drove along for less than 10 miles feeling so awful, I could not pray. I only had the energy to pray with Linda around.
As I approached my first turn (to the right) I heard an audible (almost) voice:
"Go strait and turn at Bacon road." Well, THAT was odd. I would NEVER take Bacon road - out of my way and too many hills and blind driveways. It was already after 10pm and dark out. I turned where I always did.
In 5 miles, as I entered a little town that I grew up in, the voice came back,
"Turn here and take State Street into town". This upset me. I said to myself out loud,
"Why would I turn here? Talk about a terrible idea." I continued for just under 2 miles, driving past my parent's home.
I was speeding as I was late, 65 to 70 in a 55. Suddenly, I realized that the drunk from down the road was riding his tractor in my lane, at about 15 mph, with NO lights on it. To this day, I have no idea how I swerved around him, but I did. I was angry, scared and ..... well, angry and scared. I was in WAY too much of a hurry to stop and beat him senseless with a tire iron -that would wait for another day.
I picked up my kids and took them home. ONce the boys were in bed, I called Linda and told her what happened. She said,
"That is the Lord telling us we did wrong - you almost wrecked your truck because of what we did!" This sounded reasonable to me. I prayed briefly and went to sleep around midnight.
At almost exactly 2am, I sprung up in bed. I felt a presence in my room - I asked,
"Lord are you here?" THIS time, the voice was not audible, but in my head. It asked me what I thought of the events of the day. I responded with what Linda said. The voice corrected me, telling me to think again. THEN it HIT me, and I told the voice:
"I think I get it. You told me to turn, knowing that I would not listen. You only told me so that I'd remember you telling me - at the time I thought I had built a wall between us that no one could get past, YOU reached out to me so that I'd know you were still with me - and that I am still saved and loved." The voice's response was, essentially, "Yes. I am still with you, and you with me. You may move away from me, but I will never move away from you. Now, get up and write all of this down so that you never forget this moment."
I have never forgotten. And I called Linda and explained all of this to her. I then wrote it all down. That journal was lost when I moved to GA in 2000 - but I remember the date, time, etc. as clearly today as if it happened last weekend.
I am a very 'manly' man, but I will tell you that I have not cried like I just did, typing this, I believe, in over 35 years. I am "once saved, always saved"; because I will never reject Him.
My wish is that all could know, what I know, in my heart, as described in this post. Even all the theology and "mined verses" can't change my mind; He is MY Lord - and He always will be.