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Hitting back a woman - a taboo, an evil

wondering said:
Again,
I said I agree with you.
Except for physical abuse.
The man will always be held more responsible because he is STRONGER and a normal woman could never win in a fight with a normal man.
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Not necessarily. Generally women are physically weaker, but an athletic women who's in shape could beat a man who doesn't exercise. And some women are stronger than average.
 
questdriven said:
Not necessarily. Generally women are physically weaker, but an athletic women who's in shape could beat a man who doesn't exercise. And some women are stronger than average.
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Questdriven,
I'm older than you are and I doubt you know something I don't.
I'm only saying that you don't read what I write...

I said A NORMAL WOMAN
A NORMAL MAN.

I know there are exceptions to EVERY RULE...

Blessings.
 
wondering said:
Questdriven,
I'm older than you are and I doubt you know something I don't.
I'm only saying that you don't read what I write...

I said A NORMAL WOMAN
A NORMAL MAN.

I know there are exceptions to EVERY RULE...

Blessings.
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I just think you're underestimating, but life's too short to get worked up over everything, and the main point of jarring was over the laws which is resolved now anyways. Sorry if I came off forcefully. I have two buildings to clean, so I'll be on my way for now.
 
wondering said:
I'm not a guy. What do I know?
If a guy is at gun point...
Doesn't FEAR override every other feeling??

I really would like to stop talking about this...
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Rape only needs to defined as any sex act with out consent. Simply saying yes while high on ghb isn't consent.you aren't sober. Of course with alcohol the intent to Rape has to established and also it's not the case with the military.
 
wondering said:
Are we talking about sexual assault here?

I said VIOLATED way back at the beginning.
I meant rape.
Usually violated means raped.
Are we talking about sexual assault, which could be anything,
or are we talking rape??

If we're talking about rape, which I was,
then I stick to my original idea. I don't know how a man could be raped.
Maybe I'm just naiive...
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The definition of rape in the ucmj and I believe in my state are as such
No consent ,minor ,ward of the state who isnt able to consent, sobreity.difference between how sobriety idealt with.


As I said ,nearly the same

https://www.richardhornsby.com/crimes/sex/sexual-battery.html
 
I guess this topic just really bugs me. I've not been a victim of DV, but the other stuff is somewhat closer to home for me. Don't ask me to explain what did happen with me, I simply will not, but because of things and wanting to understand what happened better I've been in peer support groups and such where I got to hear a plethora of abuse stories from men and women alike. (Also the support group had various articles as resources for members to read.)
Men can be and are rape, sexual assault, and domestic violence victims, and sometimes the perpetrators are women. Whether these cases are the minority or not really shouldn't matter, but the numbers are higher than people tend to think.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bari-zell-weinberger-esq/its-time-to-acknowledge-m_b_8292976.html
(Though this article contradicts the point I was making about laws being heavily biased in favor of women, but whatever. If they're right I'm happy to hear it.)
https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/
"And according to the paper, when female abusers are reported, they are less likely to be investigated, arrested, or punished compared to male perpetrators, who are regarded as more harmful."
 
Papa Zoom said:
If I had it to do over again, I'd never hit anyone in anger. You can't undo it. As for hitting back, I know how to run away. It's safer plus it's good exercise.
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Me too Brother. That was a long time ago that I slapped that girl. I didn't hit her in anger, mine was worse I think. It was calculated. I came to a point (remembering that a pop bottle parted my hair) that I thought...if she does it again, I'm gonna knock her on her butt. And she did.

I already knew that I wasn't going to stay with her, but like has been noted already, sometimes it does take time to do it completely. She was the persevering type shall we say? lol. (She stalked me for two years after that!)
 
Edward said:
Me too Brother. That was a long time ago that I slapped that girl. I didn't hit her in anger, mine was worse I think. It was calculated. I came to a point (remembering that a pop bottle parted my hair) that I thought...if she does it again, I'm gonna knock her on her butt. And she did.

I already knew that I wasn't going to stay with her, but like has been noted already, sometimes it does take time to do it completely. She was the persevering type shall we say? lol. (She stalked me for two years after that!)
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I always told you that you must be cute!
 
jasonc said:
Forced [beeeep] ,forced oral sex.men is asleep wakes up and pushed off a girl who is on top of him as the link I posted.gun point.you will have sex with me or I will shoot you

Or Is your definition of consent only include yes or no and a I can have sex with a 13 year old girl simply by her permission?
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What did you misunderstand?

Did you think that I actually was saying (quoting your Post #26), "No matter what a woman does to you, you keep your hands to yourself," or did you think that I said (also quoting you, this time from Post #33), "You mean you'd hit a woman? And to you a woman should be treated like a man?”
 
Sparrowhawke said:
What did you misunderstand?

Did you think that I actually was saying (quoting your Post #26), "No matter what a woman does to you, you keep your hands to yourself," or did you think that I said (also quoting you, this time from Post #33), "You mean you'd hit a woman? And to you a woman should be treated like a man?”
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Sorry SH
I cannot continue with this back and forth after apologizing twice.
Wait. Let me go get my husband. I don't think I ever apologized to HIM 2x in a row.

Post no. 26 was a lighthearted comment. Those here who know me know that I do this when a specific occasion occurs. I'm sorry if it bothers you but at this point I doubt I could change and I'm not breaking any rule.

YES. I think a man should ALWAYS keep his hands to himself unless he's in real danger.

Post no. 33:

I was asking for clarification.
I was asking you if you'd hit a woman and/or if you think women should be treated like men (in this area).

You didn't like my lighthearted comment and song.
No harm done.

You never clarified what I had asked.
No harm done.

HAPPY NOW???
 
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