I think you and I have talked about this before.
I think Christians make a huge mistake, and sometimes are being downright dishonest, when they speak of an "experience" of God - some kind of "sense" of the presence of God. I politely suggest that these experiences may by and large be "fabricated" and / or the person who claims to have them may have no real grounds for ascribing such experiences to the presence of God. Perhaps its just "brain chemistry".
Why do I make such a sweeping and critical claim? Precisely because I have been a Christian for over 30 years and I never have such "experiences". And here is the key point: it seems exceedingly implausible that God would deny to one Christian the rich "experiences" He gives to others. Some good Christian friends of great maturity report the same thing - no "subjective" sense of the presence of God. In short, if God really makes Himself known in this specifically experiential way, why would He be "selective" in whom He gives this experience to. I expect that you will agree with me about this.
Now I want to say two things more in this present post:
1. As perhaps you can already tell, I remain a committed Christian despite the absence of these experiences. But I do not do so out of "pure faith" in the sense that this expression is normally understood. Instead, my belief in the reality of God is grounded in the nature of the Biblical narrative - in the grand sweeping story of redemption I see in the Bible, I discern a ring of truth - such a sophisticated, unified, and surprising story "must be true" (this is an over-simplification for the sake of brevity). So my sense of God's reality is not based on "me and my feelings" so much as it is based on a belief that the story we see in the Bible has certain properties that compel me to believe it could not likely be a "fabrication" of the imagination. I would have to explain this a lot more.
2. I politely suggest that when Christians focus on "personal experience of a transcendent God", they are, whether they realize it or not, dismissing the present created reality as being of lesser order - in grounding their knowledge of God in the "transcendent", they are implicitly denying what the Bible tells us - that God chooses to generally work through His creation, not around it. In other words, the "real" experiences of God are the experiences that this world gives us, not mystical experiences that are disconnected from the world. This may not be that well explained, but its a start.