Precious sister,
This for you, appropriate it and pray it in,
These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God. 1Jn 5:13
And in the testimony of this precious child of God, there is a perfect example of how this doctrine from the pit causes doubt and shipwrecks the faith of God's children.
The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy:
...I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.John 10:10
I question how a born again child of God can do this to a brother or sister, ...it's certainly not in the Love of Christ and brotherly love, we are called to edify and build up, ...not cause doubt and tear down what the Lord is building.