Hey God-Centered, let me just give you some advices here. First, and want to say that it's very nice of you to want to be a servant of the Lord and following Jesus in every step of your life. Living this way, as expected, you look for a godly girl that will help you with the task. This is a very beautiful picture. As God wants and created the woman as a man's helper.
Now, we must talk about some issues on what you've posted. First, this COULD be your wife. But remember, she also might not be... God prepares for us principles and not A person that will be revealed as spouse immediately. Learn about her. Search for the biblical principles in her life. Get to know her before anything. You can do it asking her out to talk as friends and living at the church community together. You don't need to date her to do it.
Also, "God centered, A genuine real Lady not posh, Nice, Kind, Caring, loves children, sense of humor, loves music as much as i do, sense of style in clothing and pretty" it's not as specific as you think. Generally, everyone look for this, in different ways and likes and dislikes - this is beautiful, for God called every nation, every culture, etc. to sing of His glory. But remember some of those things are not essential for God.
One more thing: contextualize better "anything is possible with you Jesus". Paul, in Phillipians was talking about being able to live with much, but also living with lack of material things. With Christ, we can have and don't have. With Christ, we can have spouses or not. We must understand how to hear God and seek first for His will.
If it's God's will, you'll know this girl and you'll be able to glorify God with a marriage. If not, do not be down. Pray and continue with your very first purpose: to serve Lord, following Jesus and living for His glory.
Sorry for the bad english.
Take care. God bless you.
