Wow! There is so much conversation going on here and so much avoidance of the issue. For the Christian to deal with this, emotion must be avoided and logic must be applied but only in accordance with God's Word to us. I allueded to this early on and one or two others have maintained it through out and still, so many of you refuse the counsel of God on the matter.
God said, way back in Genesis, that man is created in the image of God. And 5 or 6 chapters later He said, "if a man kill a man, kill him. I mentioned the lady that pick axed a man and his wife to death, here in Texas, that, in prison, found Salvation and none of you touched it. We put the needle in her arm and she awaits our arrival in Heaven, right now. Her Earthly debt is paid and she is our sister in Christ but she had a debt due thar has, in her case, been collected.
On this planet, there is a perfect example of what is required of the adults here that every one of us should have learned before we were 2 years old and it does rule over us to this day... or we are in rebellion and Hell bound.
When I was two and I disobeyed my mom or my dad thedy smacked the backs of the offending hand, inflicting discipline through pain. As I grew, so did punishment. My dad knew his son, very well, and he knew the importance of education. When I was a teen I loved discipline in school because I could handle the maximum of 21 swats and every time I received swats, my Rep. as One Bad Boy grew.
Not so at home! Dad knew he still needed to treat me as an infant to embarrass me but he also knew how to punish me so it hurt. He made me sit there, at the table, for up to an hour, discussing my offence. mentally screaming, HIT ME! The punishment MUST fit the crime and every one of us have one point of commonality that cannot ever be denied, we were, all of us, created by God, in God's image. If ay one of us kills the other we must be snuffed out or we are disobedient brats.
This entire issue is settled in the same manor as every other sin, we repent and "obey" the Father we claim for our own. The murderer, the rapist, the paedophile, the thief, every one of them can die in their sin or they can repent but, either way, they owe a debt!
So we arrive back at the beginning of the subject; Will you obey God? There is no room for emotion, there is no room for desire, we are called to obey! Those of us that jumped on our choppers and took off as the rockets were going off all around us, those of us that stood there loading the 105 shell into the breach, even though the mortors were exploding around us and those of us that poked our heads up and sighted the next shot, we understand obedience. You have no other option ad regardless of feelings, you obey or, in this case, you are placing yourself in danger of going to Hell.
This is a sin issue, it's simple, where is your God?