Well, you said these are subjects off from the OP and do not want to derail from that but since you asked....
Yes, I did obtain something to begin my relationship with God. I was raised a Catholic and after attending the Church of Christ realized that that is the true Church. I was baptized and added to God's Church-not the church on earth but His heavenly Kingdom. That is where my name BornAgain came from. No good works I do will earn anything to obtain salvation. I do what God commands us to do. If you are not familiar with the Church of Christ that is what Jesus founded when he said to Peter, upon this rock I build My Church. Not a church with another man's name on it. He did not say upon this rock with be Luther's church, or John the Baptist's church, etc.
And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.
Matt 16:18 (KJV)
"I will build my church." What has been spoken of by Jesus as "the kingdom of heaven," "the kingdom of God," is here spoken of as "my church." means called out or assembly. Here "my church" means the assembly or people who have been called out of the world by the gospel of Christ.
Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered,
Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
John 3:4-7 (KJV)
There is
one birth; there are two elements, "water," and "the Spirit." Both are essential to the new birth; and the new birth is essential to entering the kingdom. What, then, is meant by being born of water and the Spirit? To enter the kingdom is to be saved. (
Col. 1:13,
14.) To be saved one must believe, repent, confess and be baptized for (unto) the remission of sins. (
Heb. 11:6;
Luke 13:3;
Rom. 10:10;
Acts 2:38.) To enter the kingdom one must be born of water and the Spirit. Since things equal to the same thing are equal to each other, it follows that to be born of water and the Spirit is to believe the gospel, repent of one's sins, confess one's faith in Christ and be baptized for the remission sins.
John 3:5 figuratively states what is literally affirmed in
Acts 2:38. To be born "anew" is simply to
obey the gospel. It is not surprising that those who deny to baptism its proper place among the conditions of pardon would interpret "water" in
John 3:5 to mean something other than baptism; in so doing, they are in conflict with the scholarship of the world, both ancient and modern. Henry Alford, one of the translators of the American Standard Version, wrote that "all attempts to get rid" of baptism in this passage, "have sprung from doctrinal prejudices by which the views of expositors have been warped," and Hooker, himself a writer of more than a hundred years ago, said that "of all ancient writers there is not one to be named who ever expounded this text otherwise than as implying external baptism." One is begotten of the Spirit by believing the Word which the Spirit gave, and born of water by coming forth from the waters of baptism.
The flesh produces fleshly life; the Spirit begets spiritual life. Nicodemus had known only the first; the second he must experience before he could enter and enjoy the blessings and benefits of the kingdom. The law that
like begets like was and is a universal one and Nicodemus ought already to have perceived it, instead of marvelling at it. It is as immutable and unchangeable as the law of gravity.
There is where my belief in salvation lies to stay on topic here...so does this require work, I guess so.