You are free to disagree but you actually haven't addressed any counterarguments or even tried to prove my points wrong.
None of this goes against my position.
You seem accept
some of what the Bible says. Look at just what Romans 12 states:
Rom 12:1 I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to
present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.
Rom 12:2 Do not be conformed to this world, but
be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Rom 12:3 For by the grace given to me
I say to everyone among you
not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to
think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.
...
Rom 12:9 Let love be genuine.
Abhor what is evil;
hold fast to what is good.
Rom 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.
Rom 12:11 Do not be slothful in zeal,
be fervent in spirit,
serve the Lord.
Rom 12:12 Rejoice in hope,
be patient in tribulation,
be constant in prayer.
Rom 12:13 Contribute to the needs of the saints and
seek to show hospitality.
Rom 12:14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and
do not curse them.
Rom 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice,
weep with those who weep.
Rom 12:16 Live in harmony with one another.
Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly.
Never be wise in your own sight.
Rom 12:17 Repay no one evil for evil,
but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.
Rom 12:18 If possible, so far as it depends on you,
live peaceably with all.
Rom 12:19 Beloved,
never avenge yourselves, but
leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
Rom 12:20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry,
feed him; if he is thirsty,
give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.”
Rom 12:21 Do not be overcome by evil, but
overcome evil with good. (ESV)
How many rules or commands for believers are there in just that chapter? I counted just over 30. Not to mention,
Robert Pate , 12:20 is quotations from Proverbs, "under the old covenant" and not to be obeyed, according to you. That's for Pharisees (supposedly).