So you believe receiving the Holy Spirit is different for Jews than it is for Gentiles?
We are born again through the seed of the word of God, which is The Gospel Message.
...having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever. 1 Peter 1:23
This is what the scripture teaches about being born again, or born of God, which is Spiritual birth.
3 Jesus answered and said to him, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.”
4 Nicodemus said to Him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?”
5 Jesus answered, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. John 3:3-5
and again
Whoever believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves Him who begot also loves him who is begotten of Him. 1 John 5:1
We are born again by believing the Gospel message, which is the incorruptible seed of the word of God.
By receiving this incorruptible seed, which is believing the Gospel message, we are born of God, or born again, of born of the Spirit.
We, as a new wine skin, are ready to be filled with new Wine.
We who are born of God, that is to say born again, are now ready to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
Being born again does not change for Gentile, but is the same for the Jew as it is for the Gentile.
For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes, for the Jew first and also for the Greek. Romans 1:16
... for the Jew first, does not mean it's different for the Jew than for Gentile.
The way of Salvation, regeneration, sanctification, Baptism, healing, deliverance blessing.... is the same for the Jew as it is for the Gentile.
44 While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit fell upon all those who heard the word. 45 And those of the circumcision who believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out on the Gentiles also. 46 For they heard them speak with tongues and magnify God. Acts 10:44-46
What we do know for sure is that when the Holy Spirit is poured out, whether through the laying on of hands or not, there is always evidence to see and hear:
33 Therefore being exalted to the right hand of God, and having received from the Father the promise of the Holy Spirit, He poured out this which you now see and hear. Acts 2:33
and again
45 And those of the circumcision who believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out on the Gentiles also. For they heard them speak with tongues and magnify God. Acts 10:45-46
Peter recounts the experience for the Jews -
15 And as I began to speak, the Holy Spirit fell upon them, as upon us at the beginning. 16 Then I remembered the word of the Lord, how He said, ‘John indeed baptized with water, but you shall be baptized with the Holy Spirit.’ Acts 11:15-16
... as upon us at the beginning, which is the Holy Spirit being poured out with evidence that people can see and hear.
And it happened, while Apollos was at Corinth, that Paul, having passed through the upper regions, came to Ephesus. And finding some disciples 2 he said to them, “Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?”
So they said to him, “We have not so much as heard whether there is a Holy Spirit.”
3 And he said to them, “Into what then were you baptized?”
So they said, “Into John’s baptism.”
4 Then Paul said, “John indeed baptized with a baptism of repentance, saying to the people that they should believe on Him who would come after him, that is, on Christ Jesus.”
5 When they heard this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. 6 And when Paul had laid hands on them, the Holy Spirit came upon them, and they spoke with tongues and prophesied. Acts 19:1-6
The evidence that people can see and hear.
13 Then Simon himself also believed; and when he was baptized he continued with Philip, and was amazed, seeing the miracles and signs which were done. Acts 8:13
Simon believed, and was born again, then he was baptized and continued with Phillip, but as of yet he had never received the Holy Spirit.
14 Now when the apostles who were at Jerusalem heard that Samaria had received the word of God, they sent Peter and John to them, 15 who, when they had come down, prayed for them that they might receive the Holy Spirit. 16 For as yet He had fallen upon none of them. They had only been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. 17 Then they laid hands on them, and they received the Holy Spirit. 18 And when Simon saw that through the laying on of the apostles’ hands the Holy Spirit was given, he offered them money, 19 saying, “Give me this power also, that anyone on whom I lay hands may receive the Holy Spirit.”
...when Simon saw that through the laying on of the apostles’ hands the Holy Spirit was given,
The Baptism of the Holy Spirit always comes to those who are receiving Him, with evidence for all to see and hear.
JLB