John 3:19-21 (ESV)
19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil.
20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.
21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”
I don't see anything in verse 21 that indicates God makes anyone do anything...
John 15:5 (ESV)
5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
Here, too, there isn't anything about God making people do things, decreeing every one of their thoughts, attitudes and actions. Jesus simply points out to his disciples the obvious: He is the Source of their spiritual life. But being the Source of their spiritual life doesn't necessarily entail compelling them in every detail of their living. My dentist is the source of all my dental fillings but this doesn't mean he compels me to have my teeth filled.
Matthew 11:25 (ESV)
25 At that time Jesus declared, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children;
Nothing here about God choosing and compelling those who repent...
Again, Jesus is speaking specifically to his Twelve Disciples, not to everybody. Jesus chose only the Twelve as his direct, live-with-me disciples. This is why we refer to them as The Twelve, not the Fifteen, or the Three Hundred, Disciples. Only these Twelve men did Jesus choose, walking up to them and saying, "Follow me."
God chooses all those who choose Christ. God has predestined all who do so, who by faith in Jesus are "in him," to salvation and adoption.
Mark 13:32-37 (ESV)
32 “But concerning that day or that hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.
33 Be on guard, keep awake. For you do not know when the time will come.
34 It is like a man going on a journey, when he leaves home and puts his servants in charge, each with his work, and commands the doorkeeper to stay awake.
35 Therefore stay awake—for you do not know when the master of the house will come, in the evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or in the morning—
36 lest he come suddenly and find you asleep.
37 And what I say to you I say to all: Stay awake.”
Jesus is speaking here to a situation that will involve everybody, not just his own disciples, and so it makes sense that his words to his disciples on this all-encompassing event applied across-the-board. But this doesn't mean that everything he had to say to his own disciples was relevant and applicable to everyone else. To think this is the case is to be guilty of a rather glaring non sequitur. For example, a mayor of a small town may have things to say to his staff that apply also to the entire town (parking policies, garbage collection schedules, property taxation, building by-laws, etc.), but there will be a great many other things the mayor will say to his staff that apply only to them ("get me a cup of coffee," "email me the minutes from the last town council meeting," "pick up some more printer ink," "you're getting a raise," etc.). It's by no means reasonable, then, to assume from this passage that all that Jesus said to his disciples applies to all who would become followers of Jesus. Only the Twelve would serve as the apostolic establishers of the Early Church, building it, teaching it authoritatively, overseeing it spiritually and dying for it. In their unique capacity as his special Twelve, Jesus spoke to them - and only to them.
Well, nothing in your latest post to me encourages me (or anyone else, I suspect) to think this is so. You constantly speak past what I've written, deflecting or ignoring my points, and frequently mistake mere assertion (or a chain of them) for reasoned argument. What's more, your handling of God's word is very poor, leading you into all sorts of faulty conclusions and interpretations of it. Get thee to a Bible School! Or, at least, to a good Sunday School class.