Was I intolerant when I told my children not to touch the stove? Was I intolerant when I told my children not to slam doors? Was I intolerant when I said, “No!” to my children when they got into trouble? Are we intolerant because we have laws against stealing, mugging, assault, or murder?
When we as Christians or anyone for that matter voice an opinion, concern, or truth of God about sinful behavior, the immediate reaction is to claim we are intolerant or to accuse us of some kind of phobia. Good for us!!! We should be intolerant in that situation. I sometimes think we are too tolerant.
I recall a few years ago when our church was a member of the ELCA and I attended a couple annual conventions before we finally had enough and dissolved our association. When the topic of endorsing practicing gay or lesbian pastors came up and someone voiced opposition the immediate response was that we hated them. This is so not true and in fact just the complete opposite was the truth. We voiced opposition out of pure love for them knowing how God feels about such behavior and how they have twisted scripture in their own mind to justify their actions, which in itself is also a sin.
When I told my child not to play in the street or not to touch the oven or not to hit her sister I wasn’t suffering from some kind of phobia but a deep love and concern for their health and welfare and to teach them about the dangers of poor judgment.
Tolerance with regard to Christianity is not just a matter of being unwilling to accept other’s viewpoints. It can and is a matter of life and death.
God certainly is not tolerant. There is no gray area. In Matthew 18:15-17 Jesus doesn’t tell us to just accept sin and let things be. I wouldn’t call this being tolerant. In Romans 1:18-32 God didn’t decide to just let things be. Death is the judgment. Hardly tolerant by any stretch in my opinion.
Matthew 18: NKJV
15 “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother.
16 But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.’
17 And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.”
Romans 1: NKJV
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,
19 because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them.
20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse,
21 because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened.
22 Professing to be wise, they became fools,
23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things.
24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves,
25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature.
27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.
28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting;
29 being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers,
30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful;
32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
Just my $.02.