so then you believe in the gift of tongues?
That's not what I indicated. I believe 1 Cor 13:8 indicates that the gift of tongues was no longer necessary after the transition to the church age.
Yes you can use it in your prayer language, like paul did when he said " I speak in tongues more than you all."
My prayer language is English. Which is the only language I speak.
He does not mention an interpreter. 1 Cor 14:18.
Let's look at the chapter:
1 Follow the way of love and eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit, especially prophecy.
2 For anyone who speaks in a tongue does not speak to people but to God. Indeed, no one understands them; they utter mysteries by the Spirit.
3 But the one who prophesies speaks to people for their strengthening, encouraging and comfort.
4 Anyone who speaks in a tongue edifies themselves, but the one who prophesies edifies the church.
5 I would like every one of you to speak in tongues, but I would rather have you prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be edified.
6 Now, brothers and sisters, if I come to you and speak in tongues, what good will I be to you, unless I bring you some revelation or knowledge or prophecy or word of instruction?
In v.1,4,5, and 6 he elevates the gift of prophecy over other gifts of the Spirit.
9 So it is with you. Unless you speak intelligible words with your tongue, how will anyone know what you are saying? You will just be speaking into the air.
12 So it is with you. Since you are eager for gifts of the Spirit, try to excel in those that build up the church.
The gifts that are important are those that build up the church, which tongues do not.
13 For this reason the one who speaks in a tongue should pray that they may interpret what they say.
14 For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful.
I hate it when my mind is "unfruitful".
19 But in the church I would rather speak five intelligible words to instruct others than ten thousand words in a tongue.
This is clear. Pau's emphasis was to instruct (teach) others.
And I agree that many uses of the gift of tongues is false. Some of it is social psychological manipulation other times they are demon possessed. So it's not an assurance of salvation. Love according to 1 john is the way to tell if you are saved. And if you confess Jesus as Lord. But I have never seen either case above as far as false tongues in a situation that bears fruit. Or the enemy is stepping on his own toes, working against himself. One thing satan is not, is unwise.
I was hoping for an answer to my question about interpreters, or if you just pray in tongues. When you pray in a tongue, do you understand what you are praying?
I think v.5 sums the issue up pretty well. "
5 I would like every one of you to speak in tongues, but I would rather have you prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be edified. "