I guess my question would be: Where does the idea come from that a person must first be saved in order to believe?
JLB
JLB,Have you checked what the Calvinists say about regeneration prior to faith?
Calvinist, R. C. Sproul wrote:
“In regeneration, God changes our hearts. He gives us a new disposition, a new inclination. He plants a desire for Christ in our hearts. We can never trust Christ for our salvation unless we first desire him. This is why we said earlier that regeneration precedes faith (1986:118, emphasis in original).
Norman Geisler, who called himself, a moderate Calvinist (1999:129), stated that
Contrary to the claims of extreme Calvinists, there are no verses properly understood that teach regeneration is prior to faith. Instead, it is the uniform pattern of Scripture to place faith logically prior to salvation as a condition for receiving it (1999:228).
To support his position, Geisler examined Romans 5:1;Luke 13:3; 2 Peter 3:9; John 3:16; Acts 16:31; Romans 3:24-25; John 3:6-7; and Titus 3:5-7 (1999:228-230), to demonstrate that faith is prior to regeneration.
Oz
Works consulted
Geisler, N 1999. Chosen but free. Minneapolis, Minnesota: Bethany House Publishers.
Sproul, R C 1986. Chosen by God. Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.