The Word took on flesh. He has two natures. In His human nature He did not come to judge.
He didn't come to immediately judge sinners, but,
Jesus said, "For judgment I have come into this world, so that those who do not see may gain their sight, and the ones who see may become blind." Jn.9:39
But this is the way God has always dealt with people. Look at what he's saying. Nothing has changed.....except our perception of Christ. Look,
Lamedh Your word, LORD, is eternal; it stands firm in the heavens. Psa.119:89
And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. Mt.28:18
The Eternal is given nothing. The problem is, after walking with him for years, they didn't know him very well. He only needed to show them.
Luk 12:13 And one of the company said unto him, Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me. 14 And he said unto him, Man, who made me a judge or a divider over you?
Yes, good example of God cloaked in flesh whithholding judgment.
God took on flesh and became a man. As a man, He had a job to do - be the sacrificial lamb to die for sins.
I've shown many times how Jesus bore our (mankinds) sins.
In the OT, God judged people and pardoned people especially Israel.
Nothing has changed,
He answered them, "Do you think these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans, because they suffered these things? No, I tell you! But unless you repent, you will all perish as well! Lk.13:2-3
You can't compare how God worked in the OT with how Jesus lived in the 3 or so years of His ministry.
That's exactly what we should be doing, except Jesus lived his whole life that way.
The grief our Savior went through. It must have felt like an eternity hanging on that cross. Maybe exactly like God being grieved over the sns mankind were committing against him as he waited while Noah built an ark.