I personally believe that somehow God knew us before the foundations of the earth was laid.
I agree with this and it is scriptural. Below is the scripture that says Jesus was sacrificed by the "
determined counsel" and "foreknowledge" of God. We see God had foreknowledge and He
determined what would happen. When God determines something, it will happen. Just as in Daniel 9:24 "
24 Seventy weeks are
determined upon thy people and upon thy holy city, to finish the transgression, and to make an end of sins, and to make reconciliation for iniquity, and to bring in everlasting righteousness, and to seal up the vision and prophecy, and to anoint the most Holy."
In the Greek and Hebrew, that word
determined is a decree, so God decreed because of His foreknowledge or within His foreknowledge.
Acts 2:23
Him, being delivered by the
determinate counsel and
foreknowledge of God, ye have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain:
1 Peter 1:2 Elect according to the
foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
So we see that the elect (chosen) are by the foreknowledge of God. That means that God knew something before the foundation of the world. In order to understand the foreknowledge that God had, you will need to figure out what God knew and therefore chose, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, and Ephraim. When you do figure that out, you will know why you are chosen.
But we also need to remember that Jesus is the Seed of Abraham and Jesus is the Chosen (Elect) One.
We are not just some random selection, like drawing a name out of a hat. God knew....something.
But it doesn't say that God decreed that we would be of the elect. In other words He didn't say, this one I decree to be saved and this one I don't. Even between Esau and Jacob, there was a reason but not because of something they had already done, they were in the womb. But foreknowledge and God had a plan. Just my own opinion is that because of this plan He did decree that Esau would be born first and Jacob second. "the older will serve the younger" and that fit into the bigger plan.
I do understand what Calvin taught about "I". But it just doesn't sit with well with scripture. There is not one scripture that says God's grace is 'I' even for salvation, that I can find.
Jesus didn't die on the cross just for our salvation. He died for many things, including our sanctification. So if God's grace is "I" for salvation, it follows that it must be "I" for sanctification. Don't you think? If not, why?
He effectually draws them to Jesus Christ, yet in such a way that they come absolutely freely, being made willing by His grace.
There is absolutely nothing "freely" about be "made" willing. Being free is to have a choice, there is no choice in being made to do something, whether it is good for us and we are happy doing it or not.
"Those whom God has predestinated to life, He is pleased in His appointed and accepted time to effectually call by His Word and Spirit, out of that state of sin and death which they are in by nature, to grace and salvation by Jesus Christ.
I love much of what Charles Spurgeon preached, he was an amazing preacher that taught in a common sense way and he didn't mince words. But I don't agree with part of this statement.
I do not find anything in the word about an ineffectual call (general call) and effectual call (elect call). Even though we know that not all will respond to the salvation Gospel message. In other words, it will be effectual to some and not to others but not because God did something for one person and not for another. God is not a respecter of persons. No one will be able to stand before our Lord and cry, NOT FAIR, you didn't give me the call.
Of coarse, this is just the statements of a lay person, who loves God and tries her best to understand.
Blessings Chopper