There are or has been fathers who have said that locally at several parish.The CC did not deny the OP for the reason you state.
I asked her an important question in post 6 to which she did not reply. Apparently, she knows why she was refused but wished to make an issue of it instead.
Your hatred of the CC is unchristianly.
It even goes against Romans 14, which you posted.
I'm not getting into this with you again, I just want to say that you're talking about initial salvation and Mungo is talking about continual salvation.
You should stop spreading lies about the CC.
One being st John of the cross ,I believe the current St Helens .
In order to marry a Catholic as I was engaged to one I had to show I was baptized .
That was when it was more open .I hear now not as much .so it depends on who you ask .