First, I agree that there are several places in the Bible that it
appears that God changed his mind.
There are also places in the bible that state God does not change His mind. (tota scriptura)
Numbers 23:19 “God is not a man, that He should lie,
Nor a son of man, that He should repent. Has He said, and will He not do it? Or has He spoken and will He not make it good
and fulfill it?
Hebrews 6:17 In the same way God, in His desire to show to the heirs of the promise the unchangeable nature of His purpose, intervened
and guaranteed it with an oath, 18 so that by two unchangeable things [His promise and His oath] in which it is impossible for God to lie, we who have fled [to Him] for refuge would have strong encouragement
and indwelling strength to hold tightly to the hope set before us.
So, we have verses saying God repents and verses saying God does not repent. Assuming we both agree that God never contradicts himself we must seek a solution.
(Aside: I wish God would make things more plain ... looks over his shoulder for storm cloud with thunderbolt with my name on it)
My contention, is the your examples are anthropomorphisms. God explaining things so we dummies like me can understand.
I picked the first 5 websites to question "Does God change his mind". They all said he does not including a Billy Graham site ... and Billy I believe was a 'free willer'.
Caveat: (open theists believe God changes His mind)
If God changes his mind he lacks knowledge which cannot be.
If God changes his mind then every promise He has made is subject to change.
If God changes his mind His wisdom is cast in doubt.
Other explanations.
In recent years, advocates of a theory called open theism have argued that God can and does change and that we can cause that change.
answersingenesis.org
Exodus 32:11-18Does God Change His Mind? Exodus, chapters 25 through 40, is a section that teaches Israel how to worship, how God is to be worshiped rightly, and in the middle, in chapter 32, we find this story about idolatry and infidelity to the living God. We've already noted that there are...
rts.edu
"To change one's mind," in the New Testament means to repent. When the Bible speaks of my repenting or your repenting, it means that we are called to change our minds or our dispositions with respect to sin—that we are to turn away from evil. Repent is loaded with these kinds of connotations...
www.ligonier.org
Billy Graham answers: Will God keep His promise to let me into Heaven?
billygraham.org
Does God change His mind? What does the Bible mean when it says God changed His mind?
www.gotquestions.org
To the degree that is true, to that degree one controls the ALMIGHTY... to that degree God is reactive, not proactive... to that degree God's wisdom has determined that man, whose fathers is the devil, should determine events in order to achieve the best outcome. (IMO and assuming the all wise God wished for the 'best outcome')
This is a logic fallacy. "A" cannot be "not A".
"Absolute control (Sovereignty)" cannot be "not Absolute control (Sovereignty)" (this assumes the definition of sovereignty is absolute control)