It's not MY theology MarkT.
It's simple, traditional theology.
Mathew 13 is speaking to the RESPONSE of the seed being thrown onto the ground.
The sower is throwing seed - The seed is being thrown. God is throwing the seed.
Unfortunately, the RESPONSE to the word is not the same. Jesus gives the different reasons why NOT EVERYONE will come to believe. It's an analogy. It's explaining the condition of the person that has the possibility to accept. Who can know why the man in your question could not accept. If he heard the word, he had the same chance as everyone else. HOW prepared does one have to be? God is not going to force us.
Your second paragraph answers your own question.
As to the potter and the clay: Romans 9:21
verse 20: Does man have the right to ask God why anyone was made the way they are?
Job 38:4
verse 21: God gives man the choice to choose. God has the power to give this choice to man.
I think if one takes scripture in a verse by verse method a complete picture does not emerge.
I fail to understand how anyone could believe God would purposefully damn one to hell. This is the big picture. do you believe God damns people to hell?
Wondering
Well, the theologians are false. Wolves in sheep's clothing. Mt. 7:15 Jesus warned us. There is no life in them or in their traditional theology.
The word of the kingdom attracts men to the light, both the good and the bad; the bad maybe to twist the word because that is their purpose, but nevertheless they serve their purpose in God's plan. The seed is the word. The word is planted in the heart. God gives growth. So in some cases the word is choked, in some cases it bears fruit and it bears fruit abundantly. In some cases it doesn't even get started. The fruit of the tree, because that's what is growing, is wisdom, knowledge and understanding, etc.. So Jesus said he who has to him more will be given and from him who has not even what he thinks he has will be taken away. Mt. 13:12 So Jesus is speaking of knowledge, and faith, and all the good things that come from above. Like eternal life. If a man has knowledge, more will be given to him. If he doesn't have knowledge, even what knowledge he thinks he has will be taken away.
As to your statement that he has the same chance as everyone else. Not true. This is not a crap shoot. This is what happens. When anyone hears the word of the kingdom and doesn't understand it, the evil one comes and snatches it away. Now if you take away the seed, what do you have? Nothing. There is no life in the man.
The church seems to be unaware of the importance of understanding the words Jesus gave us. No understanding equals no life. So what does it mean to choose if you don't understand? What are you choosing? Nothing.
Proverbs 16:4
The Lord has made everything
for its purpose, even the
wicked for the
day of trouble.
Romans 9:22
What if God, desiring to show his wrath and to make known his power, has endured with much patience the
vessels of wrath made for
destruction,
It could be men are mere vessels for good and evil. I also believe in prayer so I pray for all men.
I believe the Day of the Lord will come burning like an oven.
Malachi 4:1
“For behold, the day comes,
burning like an
oven, when all the arrogant and all evildoers will be stubble; the day that comes shall burn them up, says the Lord of hosts, so that it will leave them neither root nor branch.