12 Beware, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the living God; 13 but exhort one another daily, while it is called "Today," lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. 14 For we have become partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end, Hebrews 3:12-14
If we choose to turn away from Christ because we became hardened through the deceitfulness of sin, then like Jesus taught in the parable of the Sower, we were saved for a while, but in time of testing we departed.
We must take heed, lest we fall, and to exercise ourselves toward godliness, so in a time of testing we will be able to faithful even unto death.
7 But reject profane and old wives' fables, and exercise yourself toward godliness. 8 For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come. 9 This is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptance. 10 For to this end we both labor and suffer reproach, because we trust in the living God, who is the Savior of all men, especially of those who believe.
1 Timothy 4:7-10
Those who believe to the end will be saved.
For the end of your faith is the salvation of your soul, not the beginning of your faith, but the end.
If we are faithful unto the end, then we can expect to receive the crown of life.
Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. James 1:12
JLB
And you have provided Scripture to refute your own claim,
refute old wives tales,
and that is exactly what losing my salvation after I'm born again is, a backlash theory to the Scriptural doctrine of Grace and Eternal Security, invented and proposed by men, taking Scripture out of it's original context to try and support their vain imaginations.
Are you living in mortal fear, 24/7, 365 days a year because you understand the horror of the Lake of Fire and total separation from God, that one day you will turn away, or quit the faith and lose you salvation?
If your answer is yes, I have some Good News for you, if your answer is no, then you are safe and secure in your salvation and this is just a subject of debate concerning someone else's salvation which is none of our business, ...The Lord knows how to keep His own.
Now, my question still stands, ...would you care to answer it?