Sorry, Peter, this removes the meaning of the Gospel and replaces the cross with therapy. Show me any church in the UK where this meaning is not being promoted and where carnality and boastings and a parade are more appealing than true service. The web is filled with churches = thousands of them - show me one. One church where the leaders are the servants - one church where emotional predications don't inform every semblance of the gospel - one church where the theatre of political life hasn't corrupted the whole bread. Just one church.
I think this is where we need to get real about who we are as humans.
The gospel is about communion with Father through Christ. This is a relationship with all the aspects of a relationship and fundamentally emotions.
As people we are holders of facts, faith that acts on those facts and feelings. The Lord has declared behaviour in conformity to His commands leads to His blessing as it honours Him and His ways.
Better knowledge of how we work and why we work, helps us see the gospel and the ways of God more clearly.
Jordan Peterson and his observations have been enlightening. Humans are built to be worshippers of a Holy God walking in love. Whether they acknowledge God or not, they function best as if they do.
The theory of psychologists in regard to the ego, and being totally self centred is destructive, but equally loving oneself and acknowledging emotions, needs and reactions is part of loving God. The self punishment tendency of ascetism does not work or help as Paul points out. Accepting ourselves as lost sinners in need of a saviour is the first step. The second step is obedience through learning how to forgive, how to love, how to repent. All these things are impossible without Christ and His love working in our hearts.
One of the deep issues is not knowing the emotions of the heart. Paul was given a thorn to stop him becoming too proud. I have seen too many leaders who think they have arrived because people recognise them. Once you see the tendency of the heart to self deceive, you begin to see why everyday we need the cross and humbleness.
Salvation is sowing in faith to the Spirit. It is not earnt, but it is like saying we can live without food to not walk this is discipleship. It is like the apostles saying you do not have love if you hate your brother. I talked with many folk who were happy to see me dead, yet claimed they knew love and salvation. What they had was self congratulation of salvation without resolution and change, and what I shone a light on was where they actually were which they hated. And that hate was turned on me, as I obviously hated them to create this feeling. Paul put this dilemma in these terms
15 For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing.
16 To the one we are the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life.
2 Cor 2:15-16
The simple problem I have faced is the question as to why? And this is buried deep in peoples emotional makeup and feelings of guilt and shame.
We are in the gospel embedded in the emotional makeup of who we are, and making the paths straight, healing of our hearts, changing our behaviour and motivations are also embedded in this.
I have faced many people who claim you must be spiritual about everything while denying who they are emotionally and how this entraps them in sinful behaviour. Praise itself is a real emotional expression though I had someone claim they were not emotional at all in praise. But this illustrates how little people know who we are as people and what the gospel is as an eternally transforming power.
Love in our hearts. Love is Christ. Love is what changes and transforms us. God bless you