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It doesn't even matter and is not important if Mary was a virgin for life or not. Jesus was the firstborn of a virgin in God's plan, from there if she had other children with her husband after that is not important. If it was it would be in scripture. Mary could have children if she wanted after Jesus, it's not a sin. Everyone to there own thoughts on it.
Correct. Unfortunately, it is very important to Mungo and other Catholics. They have a strong need to believe that Mary was "ever virgin". In fact, it's a compulsion.
 
Apart from Jesus' infancy I thing Mary is always clearly identified as the mother of Jesus.

Mark 15:14 "There were also women looking on from afar, among whom were Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joses, and Salome". T
he Mary who is identified as the mother of James, Joses and Salome is not identified as the mother of Jesus.

Luke 23:55-56 "The women who had come with him from Galilee followed, and saw the tomb, and how his body was laid; then they returned, and prepared spices and ointments."These women are identified in Lk 24:10 as "Mary Magdalene and Joanna and Mary the mother of James".
Again no identification of Mary, the mother of James as the mother of Jesus.

When Jesus was being laid in the tomb Matthew says "Mary Magdalene and the other Mary were there, sitting opposite the sepulchre." I don't think Matthew would dismiss Mary, the mother of Jesus as the other Mary". (Mt 27:61). Also the "other Mary" who saw where Jesus' body was laid was almost certainly the Mary who took the spices to the tomb and therefore the mother of James.

John tells us that "standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene." (John 19:25) So now we have three Marys - Mary the mother of Jesus, her "sister" and wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene.

It seems to me more likely that Mary Clopas was the "other Mary" who was the mother of James, Joses and Salome.

Moreover Eusebius quoting from Hegesippus (110-180 AD) writes
After the martyrdom of James and the conquest of Jerusalem which immediately followed, it is said that those of the apostles and disciples of the Lord that were still living came together from all directions with those that were related to the Lord according to the flesh (for the majority of them also were still alive) to take counsel as to who was worthy to succeed James. They all with one consent pronounced Symeon, the son of Clopas, of whom the Gospel also makes mention; to be worthy of the episcopal throne of that parish. He was a cousin, as they say, of the Saviour. For Hegesippus records that Clopas was a brother of Joseph.

So Symeon (Simeon, Simon) was the cousin of Jesus, and Mary Clopas was therefore the sister-in-law of Mary the mother of Jesus. Again note the loose use of relationships. Mary Clopas is referred to as Mary’s “sister” in Jn 19:25 when she is actually her sister-in-law.

Then also Luke when listing the apostles says James, son of Alpheus. But the Aramaic Alpheus can be rendered in Greek as either Alpheus or Clopas. So again James, the “brother” of the Lord is probably the son of Clopas (and Mary Clopas).

Even if they were Mary's sisters children and not Mary Jesus mother still does not matter or mean anything. Its all irrelevant. Even if Mary was a ever virgin doesn't mean anything. Its irrelevant and her private businesses with her husband anyhow. Maybe she was maybe she wasn't. Its not a sin either way.

If she had to stay ever virgin for life as something important would need scripture to back it up. But it's not important, it's not in scripture.

If there was a scripture that said Jesus the firstborn and only son of Mary then there would be a fact.

Its all good to have a discussion and thought on it but either way it's not important. There's no clarity and facts on it.

Mary was Jesus legal mother and Jospeh was Jesus legal father. He was there eartly child and they his legal guardian. Even scripture said Jesus at young age was subject to them. He was born of God and Mary and Jospeh were chosen to be his earthly parents and look after him in his young age. Thy were both righteous and blamess so good role models.
 
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What about the title father. I know some Catholic get called father. As God is ultimate Father if anyone else gets that title next would be Joseph. He's Jesus dad and Jesus was subject to him and obeyed him as a child, and his mother.

Jesus the carpenters son. Joseph, father of Jesus. Mary, mother of Jesus.
 
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Correct. Unfortunately, it is very important to Mungo and other Catholics. They have a strong need to believe that Mary was "ever virgin". In fact, it's a compulsion.

If Mungo wants to believe that is perfectly fine each to there own belief on it. Im unsure myself as there is no scripture to back it up that Mary was or had to be a ever virgin.

Either way I'm not going to allow something likes Mary's private life after the birth of Christ divide the church. Its not important, some people might take it seriously and have a belief like Mary was ever Virgin so be it. Believe either way Its not a salvation issue. We all still brothers and sisters in Christ.
 
We just lucky we got more information and scripture, a big collection of information. Those in Jesus day and short after didn't have nothing. Not all believers would have known everything we know. The thief on the cross probably didnt know nothing. I don't think Jesus in any state to tell him his life story.

I mean, he didn't gather the masses and teach once upon a time my mother was a virgin and gave birth to me, and there were 3 wise men. Some who believed in him would not have even known about a virgin birth.
 
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Correct. Unfortunately, it is very important to Mungo and other Catholics. They have a strong need to believe that Mary was "ever virgin". In fact, it's a compulsion.

It's important because the truth is important.
Perhaps truth is not important to Protestants.
 
It's important because the truth is important.
Perhaps truth is not important to Protestants.

There is nothing in scripture that says Mary was a ever virgin or a need for her to be. Can you explain how you come to that belief.

For me using scripture it's a unknown and doesn't seem important because if it was it would be in the scripture. I mean I can see she was pure and had a virgin birth and Christ is the firstborn and prophecy for a virgin birth, but nothing she can't have or did not have relations with her husband after Jesus. Either way Its not a sin if she did or didnt so it's not important.
 
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Also have to remember as I forgot the original language has words for cousin and relative so I would have thought they would be used in scripture of they wanted to make a point.

Anyhow. Jesus brother.

Galatians 1:19
 
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I don't see what that verse has to do with being ever virgin. Virgin and pure for the firstborn but that's it. Nothing say she cannot marry Joseph and have children.

Gabriel told Mary that she will [future tense] conceive and bare a son.

Or as Mungo puts it: "The angel tells her she will conceive - some unspecified time in the future He does not say you have conceived but will conceive. He is pointing to the future but gives no timescale... But Mary asks a strange question. 'How can this be since I have no relations with a man?' In normal circumstances this would a silly question, so this indicates that this is not a normal marriage; that she has no expectation of sexual relations with Joseph... Her question therefore only makes sense if she intended not to consummate the marriage..."

How do you address that?
 
Exactly.
There is also here the issue of the meaning of worship.
The Catholic Church uses worship in the older, wider sense of giving honour.
So from Fr. John Hardon's Modern Catholic Dictionary definition of worship.
Acknowledgment of another's worth, dignity, or superior position. In religion, worship is given either to God, and then it is adoration, or to the angels and saints, and it is called veneration. Divine worship actually includes three principal acts, namely adoratin (or the recognition of God's infinite perfection), prayer or the asking for divine help, and sacrifice or the offering of something precious to God. Worship as veneration also has three principal forms, whereby the angels and saints are honored for their sanctity, asked to intercede before the divine Majesty, and imitated in their love and service of God. (Etym. Old English weorthscipe, honor, dignity, reverence: weorth, worth +ship.).


In modern times many Protestants have narrowed the meaning of worship to apply to God alone.
Is God of the Bible a jealous God?
 
As I suggested earlier, (post #27) the word worship originally mean giving honour. We give honour to God as well as to humans. Also see post #20.
But worship in the sense of adoration is only given to God.
The Church has three different Greek/Latin terms:
Latria - the adoration given to God.
Dulia - the veneration given to Saints in heaven.
Hyper-Dulia a higher form of veneration given to Mary.
Sounds you need to dig deeper to RC term.
Give Latria to God
Dulia to Saints
and Hypero Dulia to Mary
Come on...

Mary is just an instrument of God just like Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
They become Saints because of the Grace of God don't give any adoration.

You only need to worship the God of Israel that's all. He died for us for our Sins His Mercy is boundless, no need for any other intercessions of what you call Saints.
 
Sounds you need to dig deeper to RC term.
Give Latria to God
Dulia to Saints
and Hypero Dulia to Mary
Come on...

Mary is just an instrument of God just like Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
They become Saints because of the Grace of God don't give any adoration.

You only need to worship the God of Israel that's all. He died for us for our Sins His Mercy is boundless, no need for any other intercessions of what you call Saints.
Yes, give Latria (adoration) to God.
Give veneration to the Saints in heaven.
 
Hail Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy,
our life our sweetness and our hope.
To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve;
To thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us and after this our exile show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary!

V- Pray for us, O Holy Mother of God
R- That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.

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1Ti 2:5 (RSV)
For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,

So we need another mediator to Jesus Christ to be heard? Is it no enough of what Jesus did on the Cross. Is not the ultimate demonstration of Jesus Christ Love for Humanity that we need another mediator to be heard?
 
Don't worship her.
Roman Catholic worship Her so many big statue out there. Oh i think that's not the Mary of the Bible.
Exactly. That makes Mary unique and special
Ow you missed the point.

So I am told,
* Do not do unto others as you would that they should do unto you.
* So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them

What's the difference?
 
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