Some people don't like others thinking for themselves and having opinions and making there own choice. They want full control over other people's lives and think they are allowed an opinion and to make choices and get upset when people don't do what they want them to do. I mean if someone wants that much control over other human beings lives they should probably see a psychologist. In a general relationship when a man controls a woman like that in a relationship there is outrage, it's called psychological abuse.