What? Paul used these very words. If they seem "condescending" to you, that because you do not understand what the term "spiritual" and "carnal" mean as Paul used them. And of course Paul was absolute and confident in his "spiritual" authority, but thought nothing of himself as in the flesh.
2Co 10:1 ¶ Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold toward you:
2 But I beseech you, that I may not be bold when I am present with that confidence, wherewith I think to be bold against some, which think of us as if we walked according to the flesh.
3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:
4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
Just more charismatic un-rightly divided Word.
Here's what Paul said and which actually addresses what we're talking about here:
12 Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that [i]for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. 13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. 15 Let us therefore, as many as are perfect, have this attitude..." (Phillipians 3:12-15 NASB)
Tell me now you would say these same words? Or are you the 'perfect' one who Paul is saying should have the same attitude as him? Is what Paul said too low for you to accept? Or are you like Paul and the rest of us?
Your trying to mix up what Paul is saying, and your translation is in error as to the point Paul is making;
Php 3:9 ¶
And be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, which is of the law, but that which is through the faith of Christ, the righteousness which is of God by faith:
10 That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings,
being made conformable unto his death;
11 If by any means I might attain unto the resurrection of the dead.
12
Not as though I had already attained, either were already perfect: but I follow after, if that I may apprehend that for which also I am apprehended of Christ Jesus.
13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
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I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
15 ¶ Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in any thing ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.
His point being that Christ and being conformed to "His Image" is ever and ongoing process, that none of us should ever "think" that we will ever be in a position where we are not in the process of being conformed more and more into His Glory and Image. This is BY THE SPIRIT- NOT THE "LETTER"