I think of it in this way; I was not predestined to believe, but it was foreknown by God that I would believe when called, therefore predestined to be called, and predestined to be placed "in Christ" at the moment I did believe.
Good to hear an honest voice!
Many seem only interested in proving others wrong,
instead of looking together into truth and helping each other to grow in knowledge!
I do believe that as we grow in Christ some of these issues of eternal things become more clear. As we grow in knowledge and grace we Know more of His "Eternal Nature", we begin to understand His Eternal purpose and work.
1Jn 2:12 I write unto you,
little children, because your sins are forgiven you for his name's sake.
1Jn 2:13 I write unto you,
fathers, because ye have known him that is from the beginning. I write unto you, young men, because ye have overcome the wicked one. I write unto you, little children, because ye have known the Father.
1Jn 2:14 I have written unto you,
fathers, because ye have known him that is from the beginning. I have written unto you,
young men, because ye are strong, and the word of God abideth in you, and ye have overcome the wicked one.
This is shown throughout NT scripture.
Rom 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that
good, and
acceptable, and
perfect, will of God.
Rom 12:3 For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you,
not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.