That is not why few people put on the "wedding garment",
"few people"? I agree, many are indeed called, few are indeed chosen. I could support this with several Scriptures but let's look at "call" first:
"And they that are with him are called, and chosen, and faithful."
—Revelation 17:14
"And Jesus answered and spake unto them again by parables, and said, The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son, And sent forth his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding." —Matt 22:1-3
Translators use both 'bid' and 'call' in this parable to render
kaleo (Strong's #2564). Because 'call' has such special significance in Scripture, the use of 'bid' introduces a vagueness not present in the original. It is better to use call throughout would be my thought.
The first call:
... "And they would not come. Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are called, "Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage." But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise: And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them. But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. Then saith he to his servants, "The wedding is ready, but they which were called were not worthy."
—Matthew 22:3-8
Now it might be difficult come to understand this but it is clear that the King was ready for his son's marriage to happen
then and
there and if, at that time, the guests were ready and worthy, there would have been a wedding. These verses appear to clearly describe the reaction of the Jews, the called people of God, to the ministry of Jesus and his disciples. How might they be seen in any other light? There was no marriage feast at that time.
We see that there was a "
Shiddukhin" and know that it was the custom for the Father to select the bride for his son. This is seen clearly in the very lives of
Isaac and Rebecca. Then comes the "
Ketubah" or what some might understand as the "proposal". Despite the fact that it was an 'arranged marriage' the consent of the bride is very much a part of the process.
Ketubah means - "written". The ketubah was and still is today the - 'marriage contract.' It includes the promise of the Bridegroom to provide and care for her as well as the "bride price" or dowry being paid. cf. Gen. 24:52-53. The wedding that the King planned for his son didn't happen at the first miracle of Jesus, he did change the water to wine and he did curse the tree upon his departure.
Kiddushin
Like many Jewish ceremonies, the wedding ceremony begins with a cup of wine. The rabbi recites a blessing over a cup of wine and a second blessing of sanctification over the marriage. Both the bride and the groom then drink from the cup. The groom then places a solid gold band on the right index finger of the bride and declares: “Behold, you are consecrated unto me with this ring according to the laws of Moses and Israel.†These two blessings and the giving of the ring, completes the ancient betrothal ceremony. To separate the first part of the wedding ceremony from the second part that follows, the Ketubah (marriage contract) is read following the giving of the ring.
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But back to the parable where we see that the wedding did not take place as planned. We know what happened.
Another call goes out:
"Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, call to the marriage. So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
— Matthew 22:9-12
The sending of the King’s servants into the highways depicts the call going out to the Gentiles. The "gathering" that is spoken of can also be used as a fishing term, where we see they were 'caught in a net'. Paul wrote of this call, "I say then, Have they [the Jews] stumbled that they should fall? God forbid: but rather through their fall salvation is come unto the Gentiles" (Rom. 11:11).
Notice that the servants were told to "compel" guests to come in, that they went to the streets and brought "both good and bad." (cf. Matthew 22:1-14. Luke 14:7-14, recalling what was said about the word "bid" or "bidden" and how it is the same word that is translated "call"). The "gathering" can be used to mean the net itself, if I read my Greek help books right. It is a worthwhile study. The term "bad" in the "both good and bad" phrase is interesting. Although it may mean "wicked or evil", the primary meaning is "burdened by many labors". In a physical sense: diseased or blind.
Many responded to this call and we understand today that this includes us, as Gentiles —the banquet hall filled; but, as indicated in the parable, entrance into the hall is not sufficient. It is necessary for each guest to put on a wedding garment.
Note: Some of what is posted here came from sources other than me including:
Jewish Wedding Customs and the Bride of Messiah, by Glenn Kay, and
JEWISH WEDDING TRADITIONS , published on JewishWeddingNetwork.com,
The Parable of the Marriage Feast, by Richard Evans and
Isaac and Rebecca, published by Chabad.org
Conclusion
Here we come to the part that you speak of, the Wedding Garment. Here we consider the words 'many,' and 'few,' and 'one'.
The Wedding Garment:
And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment: And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless."
For those who may not understand why I am posting in the "When Law" thread, my thought is that the law fully passes away on the wedding day. It has use until then. This is a thought and not something that I demand to be true, it is a considered thought. The Lord deals with us in His understanding of our place and need according to His abundant mercies. We are called into His service and directed to build each other up in our most holy faith. Hopefully all will work toward this goal.
Your thoughts, please?