Hey everyone
Eve, to respond to your post, first we must understand that "tongues will cease". So we need to answer the question of when, and not assume that because Paul taught about it, that that teaching was for all time.
I don't believe the answer to that question is in 1 Cor. 13, but in the defined purpose of tongue. In other words, if the purpose can no longer exist, then tongues can no longer exist.
I Cor 14:27 If any man speak in an unknown tongue, let it be by two, or at the most by three, and that by course; and let one interpret. 14:28 But if there be no interpreter, let him keep silence in the church; and let him speak to himself, and to God.
Tongues was still a legitimate gift at that time. God's judgement to unbelieving Israel would fall in AD 70.
There are tongues to God, and tongues to the church
I Cor.14:2 For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him; howbeit in the spirit he speaketh mysteries
Notice that this is a prayer to God (no need for interpretation because it is not for man's benefit).Contrast that with this:
This is important, verse two is not a command, Paul states a fact. We should not jump to conclusions on whether this is a good thing or a bad thing until we hold it in light of the immediate surrounding scripture and the rest of Chapters 12-14. It clearly doesn't hold up when you define it as a "what to do" and must be taken as a rebuke or "what not to do".
Paul says it is "speaking into the air" in verse 9. Why isn't it speaking to God?
If this was a teaching concerning personal use, why does Paul qualify it with "for no one understands him" when the true gift "speaks to this people" (21,22).
Also notice that "in the spirit" is speaking of our spirit, and not the Holy Spirit.
If this is a command and something to be desired, then how do you reconsile verse two with These. These are just a few.
12 Even so you, since you are zealous for spiritual gifts, let it be for the edification of the church that you seek to excel.
15 What is the conclusion then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding. I will sing with the spirit, and I will also sing with the understanding.
22 Therefore tongues are for a sign, not to those who believe but to unbelievers; but prophesying is not for unbelievers but for those who believe.
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14 For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful.
15 What is the outcome then? I will pray with the spirit and I will pray with the mind also; I will sing with the spirit and I will sing with the mind also."
Here again Paul is not speaking of the Holy Spirit (S), but our own spirits. "My spirit" could not be the Holy Spirit. If it were, then gramatically speaking "my mind" would also be the Holy Spirit, and would be saying that the Holy Spirit is unfruitful. Paul is just pointing out the uselessness of Pagan tongues. Paul says we should pray with complete understanding, so this violates that teaching and many others from scripture concerning the gifts.
I Cor 14:21 In the law it is written, With men of other tongues and other lips will I speak unto this people; and yet for all that will they not hear me, saith the Lord. 14:22 Wherefore tongues are for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not: but prophesying serveth not for them that believe not, but for them which believe.
Here we see that God speaks to the church through tongues and interpretation (which is equal to prophecy according to I Cor 14:5)
Lets not lose sight of the sign here though, because this only applies when the sign to unbelieving Israel initiates the tongues. When there is no sign being given, prophecy is the intended gift for God to speak to His people. Remember, prophecy is for believers, tongues are for those who don't believe (unbelieving Jews).
I Cor. 14:4 He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself; but he that prophesieth edifieth the church.
Again, I thing you are assuming this to be a comand or a teaching. This is only a statement of fact, and we should not assume that it is a good or bad thing until we hold it in light of the surrounding scripture. Like 14:2, when we do this, your definition doesn't hold up. We should seek to edify the Church. We should seek understanding in all things, prayer, teaching and singing.
Here we see the contrast. When the "church" (or public assembly) is concerned, prophecy/interpreted tongues take precedence. But the uninterpreted tongue (for private prayer) is a tool of edification for the believer. Remember this verse in Jude?
I think you have it wrong here. Prophecy is the gift for believers. The gift of interpretation was given so believers could be edified while the sign was being given.
Jude 1:20 But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost
We went over this verse already. This is not tongues and nowhere gives the idea that it is speaking of tongues. Pentecostals today call praying in the Spirit (S) tongues, but that's not what the Bible meant by it. This is a Pentecostal myth that has no scriptural backing. this is a promise for all believers praying in their native tongue.
In Christ