Are you actually arguing St. Paul is married?
No because it doesn’t matter to my point about what this Scripture actually says, one way or the other. Although he was married.
Are you actually arguing Paul was a widow??? He’s addressing widows in the same way in this same verse too!
Beside the exegetical point (and no I’m not going to argue it further but I’ll link to them): Both Clement and Eusebius wrote that Paul had a wife. Origen says he’s unsure about it but does refer to the tradition (as of Origen’s time) that Paul had a wife (and left her while traveling extensively because he was gifted with sexual self-control and his wife had agreed, which is what the context is about. Sexual self-control). But their views are beside the exegesis of the Text, one way or the other.
These commentators and historian would not be so absurd as to claim Paul was a widow (a woman who’s husband as died). Yet that’s exactly what your assumption would mean if you were being consistent, that is.
Chapter XXX.—The Apostles that were Married.
1. Clement, indeed, whose words we have just quoted, after the above-mentioned facts gives a statement, on account of those who rejected marriage, of the apostles that had wives.“Or will they,” says he, “reject even the apostles? For Peter and Philip begat children; and Philip also gave his daughters in marriage. And Paul does not hesitate, in one of his epistles, to greet his wife, whom he did not take about with him, that he might not be inconvenienced in his ministry.”
The text explicitly contradicts such an assertion:
No, this Text doesn’t assert his marital status on way or the other. Rather he asserts his gift of sexual self-control and encourages some, including women (widows) to be this way too. That is, if they have this same gift of sexual self-control as he does.
You are assuming that he was unmarried. You are also assuming that to say (and I quote) “remain as I am” really means to ‘remain as you are’. These are two different sayings with two different meanings.
He meant for both these two different groups (of men
and women) to “remain as him”, in precisely the way he meant it and said it, not in the way you do.
He explains the way he means it within the context of v7-9. Don’t rip it out of context, or if you continue to do it, don’t expect me to follow you.
The exegetical fact is He told a group of “widows” to “remain as I am” in this very verse. So using your ‘logic’ consistently, why don’t you think he was a widow? Simple question! Profound answer!
He is writing TO the unmarried
Correct. “And” he is writing to widows (women who husbands have died), explicitly distinguishing between them in this Text yet telling them both to remain “as he is” if gifted with sexual self-control.
He tells them (the unmarried) to
REMAIN so
Nope.
He tells them to REMAIN (in their present state of unmarriedness
Nope. That’s assuming.
Celibate = an unmarried person
Widow = a woman who has lost her spouse by death and has not remarried. Was Paul a woman?
This isn't rocket surgery..
No it’s not. I’m no brain surgeon but I do happen to be a rocket scientist.
If a sexually self-controlled rocket scientist told a group of brain surgeons (including some who were women); “I wish that you remain as I am” would he be telling them to remain sexually sel-controlled or to remain a rocket scientist?