This is truly bizarre thinking. God will never be a sinner, no matter what He does.God is sovereign only within in holy, just, righteous nature. If God chose some to be saved and some to be lost, he would be an unjust sinner. You will not be saved if you believe that God is an unjust sinner.
God did not really hate Esau. What he hated was what Esau stood for. God hates sin but loves the sinner.
The Bible says that "it was said to her, “The older will serve the younger,” just as it is written: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” Romans 9:12-13 So God did really hate Esau.
I suggest that you read the Bible and accept what it says.