That is for you to decide, Free. Let me know what you decide after considering the following facts:
He was obviously in the purpose of God - as are we, predestinated in other words. He was predestinated to be slain before the foundation of the world:
1 Pet 2.19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:
20 Who verily was foreordained [to be slain, hence 'blood' in the previous verse] before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you,
Re 13:8 And all that dwell upon the earth shall worship him, whose names are not written in the book of life of the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world.
Mt 25:34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:
[It isn't in existence as yet, but all the preparations have been made]
Lu 11:50 That the blood of all the prophets, which was shed from the foundation of the world, may be required of this generation;
[This is an odd one. No prophet was slain from the foundation of the world, apart from Abel. Which leads us to wonder what 'foundation of the world really means']
Joh 17:24 Father, I will that they also, whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am; that they may behold my glory, which thou hast given me: for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world.
Eph 1:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:
[But we were not there, literally]
Looking at those passages, it is obvious that nothing that happened to Jesus before He was born didn't happen to us too.
Before His birth, He was:
1 Not God's firstborn (Ps 89)
2 Not God's son (2 Sam 7 and Lk 1.36, and Ps 2)
3 Not 'conceived'
Those are facts, and you may do with them as you will.
Alright, based on what you've stated above, I'll assume that you don't believe that the Son existed in any way prior to being born to Mary and Joseph. But, once again, is what you have given all that the Bible says on the matter? Far from it. Instead of pitting Scripture against Scripture, let's look at what else there is that we need to consider and try to make sense of it all.
From Jesus' own mouth:
John 3:13,16-17, "13 No one has ascended into heaven
except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man....16 "For God so loved the world, that
he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not
send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. (ESV)
John 6:31-37, 45-51, 57-58, 60-62, 31 Our fathers ate the manna in the wilderness; as it is written, 'He gave them bread from heaven to eat.'" 32 Jesus then said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, it was not Moses who gave you the bread from heaven, but my Father gives you the true bread from heaven. 33
For the bread of God is he who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world." 34 They said to him, "Sir, give us this bread always." 35 Jesus said to them, "
I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst. 36 But I said to you that you have seen me and yet do not believe. 37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out. 38
For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me.
....
45 It is written in the Prophets, 'And they will all be taught by God.'Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me-- 46
not that anyone has seen the Father except he who is from God; he has seen the Father. 47 Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes has eternal life.48 I am the bread of life. 49 Your fathers ate the manna in the wilderness, and they died. 50
This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so that one may eat of it and not die. 51
I am the living bread that came down from heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever. And
the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh."
....
57
As the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so whoever feeds on me, he also will live because of me. 58
This is the bread that came down from heaven, not like the bread the fathers ate and died. Whoever feeds on this bread will live forever."
....
60 When many of his disciples heard it, they said, "This is a hard saying; who can listen to it?" 61 But Jesus, knowing in himself that his disciples were grumbling about this, said to them, "Do you take offense at this? 62 Then
what if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? (ESV)
John 8:56-59, 56 Your father Abraham rejoiced that he would see my day. He saw it and was glad." 57 So the Jews said to him, "You are not yet fifty years old, and have you seen Abraham?" 58 Jesus said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you,
before Abraham was, I am." 59 So they picked up stones to throw at him, but Jesus hid himself and went out of the temple. (ESV)
John 17:5 And now, Father, glorify me in your own presence
with the glory that I had with you before the world existed. (ESV)
It simply cannot get any clearer than this, and that is not an exhaustive list of Jesus' own words on the matter, just ones that came to mind. I think even Teddy and Jesse would be in agreement with me that
in the very least, Jesus was in existence prior to being physically born. It is the nature of that existence about which I and they disagree.
But that's not all. Let's look at the passages which constitute an argument which has been completely ignored several times in this thread:
John 1:3
All things were made through him, and
without him was not any thing made that was made. (ESV)
1 Cor 8:6 yet for us there is one God, the Father,
from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ,
through whom are all things and through whom we exist. (ESV)
Col 1:16-17, 16 For
by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities--
all things were created through him and for him. 17 And
he is before all things, and in him all things hold together. (ESV)
If these passages are true, then the Son could not have been made. That is a very simple logical conclusion based on what these verses say. If Jesus had been created, then at least one thing has been made without Jesus, immediately showing these verses to be false. And, of course, God is the only being, the only "thing" in existence, which is uncreated. So
by definition, Jesus is also God.