It appears that you do see 2 parties present. That's always the point of observations of the Spirit. There is the believer and there is the working of our enemies in our own flesh. What applies to us applies in the positive sense applies in the opposite sense to our enemies in the flesh. Believers have a forced tendency from the enemy in the flesh to see themselves as only them, as an individual. Scripture does not give us that sight, in the Spirit. We see ourselves as children of God, and we are honest not to extend any of Gods Grace or Mercy to the enemy in the flesh, simultaneously. These get the opposing dictates of God in Christ. We live by Every Word of God. That will not apply to Satan and his messengers. Matt. 4:4, Luke 4:4. There is LIFE in the wrath and damnation Words of God. They are FOR us, in our behalf precisely because they are against our enemies IN THE FLESH. Hard place to get to, because the opposition in the flesh is real and the opposition in the flesh won't hear of it, and can't hear of it. They are meant to resist every Word of God. Particularly on this subject matter.
Mark 4: 15 And these are they by the way side,
where the word is sown; but when they have heard,
Satan cometh immediately, and
taketh away the word that was sown in their hearts.
Luke 8:12 Those by the way side are
they that hear; then cometh
the devil, and
taketh away the word out of their hearts, lest they should believe and be saved. Matt. 13: 19
When any one heareth the word of the kingdom, and understandeth it not, then cometh
the wicked one, and
catcheth away that which was sown in his heart. This is he which received seed by the way side. Anywhere christians engage each others in Word, the above happens. We think it's just us as individuals, but there are other players to the drama of the wicked sort, that can not be seen, also engaging. And probably having quite a lot of adverse fun by the confusions they cause.