Hi Marilyn,
Since you agree one does not build a theology on one verse, where are the other verses that say that God will again marry Israel after some of them or many most, rejected and killed the Messiah sent? The timeline is critical. The divorce, if you will, happened a few decades after the Resurrection. The Bride is the church, Jew and Gentile, grafted into Christ into one body, one bride. Remember that the NT church comprised mainly of Jews, is the bride or wife or partner that was promised in the OT where the hearts are changed (whosoever will.)
Now I read again Matthew 22:1-14 and I do not see a promise that God is going to restore the Israel that rejected him. Where is that? What I see is God opened the door for both Jew and Gentile to come in, receive a wedding garment, and be a part. Remember the scripture where Jesus said the door will close and others outside will want in and be told that the door is now closed. Time has passed. Remember Luke 20:9-18 where the owner sent his son thinking the workers will respect the son and they killed him. Did the owner then betroth them to himself? No, he went and destroyed them. This happened in 70 AD. Jesus was saying that the age of the Jews being the place of the dwelling of God was over.
"God made the different groups - nations, Israel & the Body of Christ for special purposes under Christ.
The Body of Christ - called out ones from Israel and the nations.
Israel - called out ones from the nations."
Gal 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
So how do you match your theory to this clear scripture? It is important that the Bible interpret the Bible.
Thanks for engaging in these things. I appreciate it.
Blessings,
D